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jordanian11
Feb 8, 2010, 06:13 PM
And I hate it
My boyfriend is not a romantic person anymore
He had been like this in the past but I always knew how to make him romantic again
I feel like I should get off his back and let him study
Work.. and wt ever he has going on in his life
But what about me..
I have the personality where if there is no love in my life
I literlly donno what to do
As if I am not guided anymore
Or donno how to explore my personality any more
Or be happy
I feel as if I donno what to do with my life anymore
And what's worst (for me) that tomorrow I am going to meet him
And I am suppose to be myself
But what I donno how to do that after today's conversation
I even told him if you want me to support you I'll.. but don't expect me to be happy about this or saying romantic stuff or being nice to you a lot
So what can I do after all this
Any advice?
I think the end to my whole personality is coming to an end!
And I don't want that to happened
We used to be soulmates that's why I am lost now
Sorry I talk too much
Thanks

amicon
Feb 9, 2010, 01:31 AM
Your happiness shouldn't be dependent on whether you have somebody 'being romantic'with you.

Find happiness within yourself and a life you enjoy that doesn't depend on your boyfriend.
As for your relationship,if its happy and you care about each other,give him space to work,study etc.

If you are not happy,talk about your situation and take it from there.

Romefalls19
Feb 9, 2010, 07:05 AM
You should be able to happy on your own, without depending on someone for that happiness. How long have you two been dating? Sometimes after awhile the honeymoon phase tails off and you lose that romantic touch. Have you tried to sit down and talk with him about how you feel?