Hi my name is emily and I'm 22 my boyfriend is 23. So, we have been living together for over a year and we used to have sex a couple times a guy, which wore down to once a day, to every other day, and so on. He didn't have a job for 7 months, drank, and was inactive so I figured that was it. Now he has 2 jobs and we both work out reguraly. I have always had a really high sex drive. In the last couple weeks my sex drive has sky rocketed and his is nonexistant. I try to go down on him he pushes my head away. I tried to wait and see how long it would take him to come on to me and he didn't even want it for over a week. I am constantly being turned down even when I come on to him. I have tried outfits, you name it. I know he is not cheating on me. He has never lied to me either. Is this normal or am I just a freak.

Talk to him and just ask him why.

I would say your best bet would to tell him what you noticed and ask him what is on his mind.

Try to listen as best you can and remain calm. He should appreciate your patience and understanding.

Best of luck :)

Have you ASKED him about it?

When's the last time he had a complete physical?

What does his doctor say about it?