I like this guy I met at our church insight, but for 1 two other girls are after him and have known him longer, he is in 8th grade and lives in merkel, and I live at least 60 miles away and the only trime I see him is once a month so Is that good enough time to get to know sum1 in that time.Send me any advice I will take appreciately:)

OK. I can totally relate. Call him. Im him. Don't be clingy. Be fun and get out there! Become friends, get to know him. Even maybe partake in some of his activities. Like if he plays football, go to the game! Find out if he's really worth your time. Let me know how it goes!

Make sure you talk to him when you see him next ;) keep cool, and be yourself.

Thanks guys but how do I go about getting his #? This is hard because I am not exactly guy savvy.
Love addy

Why not ask for his e-mail address first. It is much less personal, you can build up after that.

Ok but what do you think about the game thing?I mean , I think it would be kind of stupid because I don't know him that well and showing up there he might ask why I was there and I'd say, oh to see your game.Well I don't even know what I'm talking about because I've never had a boyfriend and just send more advice.Pleez don't be mad crybabypirate2255

Game? Well, do you have and friends who play for the same team? Or any friends who may be going to the game? If not, then I would wait. You don't want to seem to anxious, then you can seem needy.

I would wait until you see him at church and ask for his e-mail.

Well 4 1thing ,he doesn't go to my school .he lives 80 miles away.

How old are you? Does this create an inconvenience? Maybe (and I am not trying to sound mean here) try and find someone who lives closer?

How often do you see him? Long distance relationships at young ages rarely work.

Another thing is that I'm taller than him but do you think That we can still be friends if this doesn't work out? Ireally hope this works out.I'm up against a freind(she knows how I feel)who is smaller and pprettier than I am .Shes a cheerleader, known him longer,and I'm just the tall, slightly overweight chick who plays like 4 different sports.is it true guys don't like girls who are more physically active?

How old are you?

What should I wear when I see him next ?Remember, people, its at a church, but its regular dressing

Okay, listen to how the forum works. You can post all of these questions under the same thread. You will get more and better answers that way.

Wear what you normally wear. You have to be yourself, don't pretend to be someone you are not.

Are you about 13? Not to sound harsh, but these are the same questions my 13 year old asks.

Are you really a health expert,because all these age q's r a little too much

Please see this (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/You%20can%20view%20my%20qualifications%20here.). Click on the "blue word"

Yes, I am a health expert as well as a mother of a 20 year old son, an 18 year old son, a 13 year old daughter and a 4 year old son. I am 42 years old.

Why do you say my q's are too much? I can explain if you would like.


If you would like any more info to help I will gladly provide it.

Sorry about that , I just read your quAIFICATIONS AND I'M SORRY BUT I THOUGHT YA MIGHT BE SOME OLD perv who sits a round on his computer all day

Sorry.I am not so tech safe savvy and I 'm always told not to reveal so much about myself.I would really appreciate your help.I just now noticed the little blue word but I'm always told that you never know who you are talking to.But since I've read your stuff I feel a better confidence of you.

Hey, that is okay. No offense taken. I am a Mom, I get that all the time LOL

Thanks,so anyway I've been thinking about it, and I 'm not going to waste my time with merkel urkle.BUt what I am going to do is become friends with him because I think I liked him just because he was funny so I 'm just going to be friends.Who knows?Maybe hell ask me out one day.But I would like to say thanks to any and every one who sent me answers and that you helped me through this decision.But I still have more q's so read uup on all topics

Its always wise to become friends first. My Husband was my good friend for 4 months before our relationship evolved ;)

J_9 , I heart your new signature pic!! Its soooooo fetch!! I hope to read you soon!!

Addy, the reason I asked your age is because my answer is age appropriate. I would hate to give a 20 year old advice that should be given to a 10 year old. And I would hate to advise a 12 year old that it is okay to do things she shouldn't do because I thought she was 20.

Get my drift?:p

Thanks J_9!! I am sry for the way I acted but I didn't know(I feel blonde)!!