MelaniePorter
Feb 4, 2010, 09:00 AM
I just found out four days ago that my husband has been cheating on me for approximately eight months with a woman from his office.
Unfortunately we have been going through a lot lately, as the same month he started the affair, I found out I was pregnant with a baby that we were trying for. Thus, for months he has been a complete jerk, very standoff-ish and I couldn't figure out why.
Fast forward up to a few months ago where I find out I have breast cancer and am still pregnant. Apparently he finally said goodbye to this woman since I had the cancer diagnosis, however, why wouldn't the fact that he had a baby on the way make him realize that what he was doing was seriously wrong.
I am now doing Chemotherapy, we have a two month old beautiful girl, but also now find myself in this predicament. I will definitely leave this clueless bastard, but unfortunately I have to get through this illness first and kick it, thus I don't know how to handle sleepless nights with a baby and puking mornings with chemotherapy. I want so much to kick him out, but not sure if its an option right now. Can we live together for two more months and then say goodbye, can I live near someone who disgusts me so much. Too many questions, so this is why I write.
MP
Unfortunately we have been going through a lot lately, as the same month he started the affair, I found out I was pregnant with a baby that we were trying for. Thus, for months he has been a complete jerk, very standoff-ish and I couldn't figure out why.
Fast forward up to a few months ago where I find out I have breast cancer and am still pregnant. Apparently he finally said goodbye to this woman since I had the cancer diagnosis, however, why wouldn't the fact that he had a baby on the way make him realize that what he was doing was seriously wrong.
I am now doing Chemotherapy, we have a two month old beautiful girl, but also now find myself in this predicament. I will definitely leave this clueless bastard, but unfortunately I have to get through this illness first and kick it, thus I don't know how to handle sleepless nights with a baby and puking mornings with chemotherapy. I want so much to kick him out, but not sure if its an option right now. Can we live together for two more months and then say goodbye, can I live near someone who disgusts me so much. Too many questions, so this is why I write.
MP