I have a boyfriend who is a little older than me, I LOVE HIM SO MUCH, and he doesn't really like kissing. I on the other hand LOVE to be kissed, I LOVE everything about it. I have tried talking to him about how I need to be kissed and that it is important to me. He gives me a lot more pecks now, which can be really unmeaningful. I think it gets bad when I have to ask for the deep meaningful kiss. So is there anything I can do that would make him like kissing more? Rather than just talk to him about it?

Hello rja,

Have you sat down and talked to your boyfriend about it? Asking him why he doesn't initiate or kiss you passionatly?

MAKING him kiss you will be about as meaningful as him not kissing you at all.

Asking him why he doesn't want to kiss you, is a good idea. You are probably like me, you show and receive love through physical affection- your boyfriend (like my fiance) probably doesn't. Both of you speak love in a different "language." I suggest learning what his is, and discussing how you can both fill up each other's "love tanks" by using your specific love languages.
And read "the 5 love languages" by Gary Chapman.