Move to its own thread

Me and my ex was together for four year and I made sum mistakes something that was little like girls call the house phone but I didn't tell her. But I never cheated on her their was nothing going on with them and they told her that but she didn't believe them. So now she went back to her first love and we still stay together while she go to his house every night she say she confused and I think she confuse if she wants to be with him or not, not get back with me. That want I think and she say she don't like me no more but she always ask me to do stuff for her. I really love her she is my soul mate and I don't know what to do at this point.

Please don't piggyback in someone else's thread.

If she didn't believe you, then it means she didn't trust you. No trust = No relationship.

It's pretty clear that she doesn't even want to give you a chance to repair the trust.

Furthermore, if she has a new boyfriend, then leave her alone. She's moved on with her life, so you should do the same. You can't force her to come back with you.

Time to move on,she's with someone else and you can't stay stuck hoping she'll come back.
Read the stickies at the top of the relationship page for good advice on how to get over a breakup.

No trust = no relationship and she is now with someone else, so you have to let her go.

We still stay together while she go to his house every night she say she confused


Help her with her confusion by getting her completely out of your house.

Soul mates don't spend the night with other people.

Wake up, and stop being played for a darn fool!