I'm just curious, trying to I guess increase my sexual knowledge, but if a woman "knows" how to have a vaginal orgasm, or has had them before, is it because she knows what to do, or is it because of the technique of her partner?

Please state your age.

Taking you at your word, each woman is different regarding her sexual "triggers." Some climax with no prior knowledge of sex at all, some have to work long and hard to discover what "floats their boat," if you'll pardon the euphemism.

KNOWING how to have them and having had them before aren't necessarily the same thing.

I think it's a combination of MANY factors, if she's able to have a vaginal orgasm at all.

My wife and I have an idea that whether you have a vaginal orgasm depends a lot on how hot the female is. If she is really turned on and has been for several hours she seems to always have a vaginal orgasm, when she has not been that turned on she does not have them.

So we think that lots has to do with the brain, because sometimes she is at a point that she could orgasm by me just touching her body.

Why do I have to state my age?
I'm 20 by the way (read my other posts)
But the reason why I ask is because I was talking to a female friend about the topic yesterday and we got into a debate about whether it was more a salute to the guy who can give a vaginal orgasm (since they're so rare) or if it's the girls knowledge.

Synnen- I guess having had one before doesn't qualify that you'll have one every time with different partners?

Nope.

I have them with my husband, but only had them with ONE other partner before him. And I don't have them EVERY time.

It does tend to be when I am more turned on, though, and more relaxed.

Yes your age is important cause usually when you're young(20 is young) you're still discovering your body and real pleasure and you are less confident than when you're older.All this is very important...

Why do I have to state my age?


The reason we ask for age here is that it is the Adult Sexuality section of the forum. This is for people 18 years and older. You would have seen that had you read the warning at the top of the forum page.

Now, not every woman is capable of having a vaginal orgasm. Many can only have clitoral orgasms. Much of it is state of mind as well.

The reason we ask for age here is that it is the Adult Sexuality section of the forum. This is for people 18 years and older. You would have seen that had you read the warning at the top of the forum page.

Now, not every woman is capable of having a vaginal orgasm. Many can only have clitoral orgasms. Much of it is state of mind as well.

YES I can't and this is very frustrating:mad:
I wish I could... maybe one day...

YES i can't and this is very frustrating:mad:
i wish i could...maybe one day..........

Yes I also I agree... You are not alone! :mad: very frustrating