Okay... his name is jack.. not extremely stylish , not extremely handsome but still there's something about him.. hes very quiet.. has some problems but I don't mind thest things.. he's not cool or a bad boy and I know that's shallow because those kinds are usually wankers but he's so nice and asked me out and really like really likes me and I said I don't know because id be worried about people finding out ,slagging, all because he's not d usual mr cool who gets in trouble and is popular.. he's smart average and quiet but so nice.. what do I do!! Because there are other boys who are cool and bad who also liike me at d mo but somehow won't respect me asa much as jack will... you know and I feel bad 2..

Please use proper English

How old are you?

Talk to him. Get to know him better. Let things flow naturally.

I'm 16... it is proper english

If you like someone, you shouldn't worry about what other people think!

No it is not real english, it is a mix of text talk which is not allowed here.
And while I am not the best speller, you destroy even simple words spelling the way they sound, not they way they are actually spelled.

Your posts will be deleted if proper english is not used.

Next so what if a lot of other guys like you, if they don't respect you, they are not worth your time and trouble.

I know but... I think its too late now.. oh well.. just my luck.. and I don't know if I like him or not, but if I didn't would I think about it this much?

First let me say something about your English. To you this is the cool thing now and it is used in texing and such but it is a very bad habit to get into. Someday you will want to get a job and you are going to be in such a habit of talking that way it might cost you your job or a promotion.

Now about your friends that are the bad boys, the same thing will happen to them when they apply for college ar a job, their reputation is going to follow them as bad boys. Older people look at these cute bad boys different than you do. We look at them as disrespectful, somewhat lazy, and users.

Ask one of your older friends or aunts that married one of these bad boys and see how much se is enjoying it now.

Yes I think you like the quite guy or you would not think about him enough to write and ask others about him. Give him a chance. He may someday be the most likely to succeed.

I agree with "letmetellu", you should give him a chance. If your friends talk bad about your choices then maybe they are not your real friends. I also agree that you should have spelled the word all the way out. If you go for the bad boy type you will most likely get cheated on or they would only want one thing from you. If after you give him a chance and it don't work out then at least you gave it a chance.

I was in a similar situation last year, and many made fun of me. But the guy didn't like me back, so it hurt a lot.

Be glad he likes you as well, and who cares what others think?

Others would want you with the 'hot' guys, well then where would you be when it comes down to brains getting jobs?