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magoo56
Jan 31, 2010, 01:16 PM
Me and my boyfriend were on and off for 2 years and he has had many other girlfriends but always comes back and tells me how I was better and he was sorry for leaving now he has a girlfriend he is serious about but I am still not over him. I do love him a lot! What do I do?

amicon
Jan 31, 2010, 01:31 PM
You stop talking to him,if you still are and stay well away from him.
He's been using you as his backup plan every time he has come back to you,only to dump you time and time again for somebody else.

You get over him,and regain your selfrespect by staying busy and do things that make you feel good about yourself.

I wish
Jan 31, 2010, 01:40 PM
Sounds like you've been the backup plan all along.

He's not scared to go date other people because he knows that you will be waiting around for him to come back anyway.

Why do this to yourself?

talaniman
Feb 2, 2010, 11:48 AM
You disappear from his life, and get a life that you enjoy without him.

That's what he did didn't he??

Romefalls19
Feb 2, 2010, 12:16 PM
Stop talking to him and being so available!

Devorameira
Feb 2, 2010, 12:27 PM
Don't accept the instability of an on-again off-again relationship. Don't be a "yo-yo" girl... you deserve better! You really need to move on and find someone that loves you. This man obviously only cares about himself and only uses you as a person to land on between women.

odilians10
Sep 19, 2010, 09:04 PM
I'm in a similar situation, but is the other way, as bad as it might be, yes he is using you as a backup becos he knows how much you love him and always available to take him back.. I would say find someone who loves you for you...