After talking, emailing or texting everyday for months all of the sudden my lover just stopped communicating over a week ago. I had no indication he was unhappy, quite the contrary. Then the silence... it has me upset like a teenager.

If he wanted time apart or wanted to end things he could have just said so, but instead, my emails/messages have gone unanswered. It's rude. I even checked the obituaries. I logically know I should just move along and accept this, but I'm feeling hurt, abandoned and genuinely confused.

Where the two of you lovers or in a serious relatinship? If you were lovers then maybe he found someone else or has a significan't other that you don'tknow about.

If aa serious relationship I understand your pain. Perhaps he just did the d.i.c.k. thing of just leaving you wihtout a word. Maybe he felt that he couldn't tell you something that was important or along the lines of a break up and just left. People tend to do that because they are afriad of the other person's reaction.

How was your relationship? Was it purely sexual? The opposite? Elaborate a little more and maybe we can all help out a little more.

If you know where he works, wait until he has a lunch break and ask him for a few moments of his time ,then ask him where things stand with your relationship. Be cool and calm and don't cry. Don't make a scene. If he tells you it's over ,then tell him he should have told you face to face instead of being a worm.

If it's over go home and cry and then thank your lucky stars to be rid of the jerk. Put on the song "I Will Survive or "You're No Good", dance along with the music and sing also. Lose his number, email address,phone number so you won't be tempted to contact him

If he has a good reason, like amnesia, swine flu, mugging or anything like that , think before you go blindly back into this relationship.

I know it hurts but it's better to know than to keep on wondering why? We've all been there.

Could I ask if this was an internet thing?

Have you met in person?

If not perhaps he was not who he said he was,its easy to fool someone,he could have been married,or in a relationship or just met someone in real life.

If you were lovers in real life,and this is how he treats you and breaks up,what a bloody coward he is.

You are better off without him,I suggest you move on,spend time with friends and family,hit the gym and enjoy living.