Duluth2010
Jan 29, 2010, 01:22 PM
Well first off I never thought that this would have happen to me or be asking such a question here but here it goes. My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 months. I never thought I could love someone so such much as I love this girl. When I’m not with her all I do is think about her, I am totally crazy about her. Are ages are 21 and 18.
I guess I should start with a little back ground
We had took a trip together so it was just us for 5 days, which was during our four month anniversary.
The first three nights there we both had very intense fore playing going on with each other for a few hours. We were both extremely turned on as she told me that she was and I had no problem being and staying hard for those 2-3 hours. During these 3 nights I was not thinking about sex at all, I was just enjoying the moment. During the third night we both wanted to have sex but we had no condoms, so nothing happen other then about 3 hours of fore play.
The next night, now having condoms we both knew that tonight could be the night. We are both each others first so I along with her was a bit nervous. I was actually thinking about it most of the day. We started with foreplay and I was able to get hard but this time I started losing it only after 20 minutes or so. I tried along with her help me get hard again but I was not able to keep it for more then a few minutes at a time.
I know I was thinking about how I would do and how long I would last during the whole time just about so I think I was just thinking about it so much I was not able to just enjoy the moment like the other nights.
So I guess I want to know if it is me or does this sound some what normal for being nervous the for the first time?
Any help and suggestions for me for the next time we try to keep my mind clear instead of thinking of everything?
I guess I should start with a little back ground
We had took a trip together so it was just us for 5 days, which was during our four month anniversary.
The first three nights there we both had very intense fore playing going on with each other for a few hours. We were both extremely turned on as she told me that she was and I had no problem being and staying hard for those 2-3 hours. During these 3 nights I was not thinking about sex at all, I was just enjoying the moment. During the third night we both wanted to have sex but we had no condoms, so nothing happen other then about 3 hours of fore play.
The next night, now having condoms we both knew that tonight could be the night. We are both each others first so I along with her was a bit nervous. I was actually thinking about it most of the day. We started with foreplay and I was able to get hard but this time I started losing it only after 20 minutes or so. I tried along with her help me get hard again but I was not able to keep it for more then a few minutes at a time.
I know I was thinking about how I would do and how long I would last during the whole time just about so I think I was just thinking about it so much I was not able to just enjoy the moment like the other nights.
So I guess I want to know if it is me or does this sound some what normal for being nervous the for the first time?
Any help and suggestions for me for the next time we try to keep my mind clear instead of thinking of everything?