Hi, My name is Samantha and I am 18 years old. My boyfriend is 21. We have been together for almost 2 years now and have had unprotected sex throughout the entire relationship. Not saying that I want to have a baby and I know it is stupid too not wear a condom but I am allergic to them, I went on birth control and became suicidal and could have literally killed him and laughed in his face it got so bad so I stopped taking them after 1 month and just gave up. But, I have had regular periods basically since I was 14 and only once did it mess up and it was when I was moving across the country to go live with him and I was stressed so I'm not worried. But now its been roughly 3 months, I have all symptoms of being pregnant but the pregancy test shows negative every time. I've taken 3, all in the morning made sure I peed enough on it, and not even a single line shade or anything in the second window or first whichever one. The other line showed up clear as day so I know I did the test right. Now, I know I don't want to have a baby just yet I am however financially settled so if it does happen I am not too worried about how the baby is going to turn out it will be fine. My only problem is why or how I am not pregnant or the test says I'm not anyway. If I'm not I am going to be kind of disappointed because maybe I'm not fertile or maybe he's shooting blanks as some people would say. I can't go see the doctor probably for another 2 months or so I'm working on birth certificate at the moment and its already taken 6 months to get where I'm at. But my question is, could I be pregnant? And if not why aren't I getting pregnant? Could there be something wrong with me? Or are these tests just wrong and I am pregnant? Help me someone. Thank you for reading.

I have had evry symptom other then morning sickness by the way. And haven't been constipated but I have been getting the runs lately. And I bent over because I was moving my room around, like I was sitting with me legs kind of spread in front of me and I bent forward to grab the extension cord to plug in my TV and I got this sharp pain near where I would get cramps from my period and it hurt pretty bad but I leant straight up again and it was fine.. and I lifted my bed up which was just a matress on top of a matress and my lower back was unbelievably sore I had to put it down. Which is odd because I usually do a lot of lifting I live in the bush so I do a lot of stuff with big trees like chippin them down and piling the wood and sometimes it gets heavy but I never felt that kind of stuff before.

First off all, not all birth controls are created equal. There is most likely one that will work for you.

Secondly, you can go to Planned Parenthood no matter your circumstances at little to no cost.

Thirdly, I cannot tell you if you are pregnant. A blood test is your best bet. And those you would need to go to the doctor for.

The pain is probably because you aren't supposed to lift with your back, you bend at the knees and use your entire body for leverage.

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