View Full Version : Could it be the other guys baby?
mommy j
Jan 27, 2010, 04:44 PM
I want to know the day I got preagnant because my boyfriend and me had been on and of for 2 yrs and we have both been with different partners!! Am now preagnant with my 2nd baby am 13 1/2 weeks! The last day of my period was nov 1! Bt in oct I had been with another guy like at the beginning of oct no later than oct 10 we did have unprotected sex!! Am scared that the baby might be his! Bt before I found out I was preagnet again I took 2 test at the hospital and they both cam ou negative one was like in the mid of oct and the other was the 1st week of nov and came out negative again!! The in nov I missed my period so I took another test and it came out positive! Could there be a possibility it no my partners baby and it's the guys I had sex before oct 10? I no it was before oct 10 because I got bak with my boyfriend that day and that same night we had unprotected sex!! Help me am confused! I don't want it to be that other guys baby!
JudyKayTee
Jan 27, 2010, 04:53 PM
You will have to wait until the child is born, have DNA testing done, determine who the father is.
There is no other way to be 100% sure.
friend4u178
Jan 27, 2010, 05:19 PM
i dnt want it to be that other guys baby!
Well then you shouldn't have had unprotected sex with him :rolleyes:
Like Judy said you'll have to wait until it's born and have DNA testing done.
Fr_Chuck
Jan 27, 2010, 05:49 PM
First after 2 years of on and off, is it not perhaps time to either just call it off, or get professional help to try and make it work.
A baby will not make it work better.
The dates are so close it could be either, there is no way to tell until the baby is born, also, looks at that time don't mean anything either, a DNA test will have to be done
Catsmine
Jan 27, 2010, 08:34 PM
I'm simply amazed that three people could make sense of the gobbledegook you typed. I think what you said is your entire life is almost as together as your typing. Please consider adoption. It will be better for the children.
Alty
Jan 27, 2010, 08:53 PM
preagnant = pregnant
boyfriend = boyfriend
n = and
different - different
bt = but
cam = came
ou = out
bak = back
don't = don't
Also, all the grammar errors, lack of proper sentence structure, are you sure you're pregnant because I don't think you're old enough to menstruate much less get pregnant. My 7 year old writes better then this.
We're not a chat site, you're not texting your best friends, put some thought into your post because chat speak isn't allowed. If English isn't your first language then please at least try to write complete words and use the best grammar you can.
Who's going to teach your kids to read and write?
As for your question, keep your legs crossed, then you won't have to wonder who the father of your children are. A DNA test after the birth is your only option. Maybe you'll be with a new guy by then.
J_9
Jan 27, 2010, 08:56 PM
Finally, I could give you an estimated date of when you conceived, except I would need the FIRST day of your period, not the last.
smoothy
Jan 28, 2010, 05:54 AM
preagnant = pregnant
bf = boyfriend
n = and
diffrent - different
bt = but
cam = came
ou = out
bak = back
dnt = don't
Also, all the grammar errors, lack of proper sentence structure, are you sure you're pregnant because I don't think you're old enough to menstruate much less get pregnant. My 7 year old writes better then this.
We're not a chat site, you're not texting your bff, put some thought into your post because chat speak isn't allowed. If English isn't your first language then please at least try to write complete words and use the best grammar you can.
Who's going to teach your kids to read and write?
As for your question, keep your legs crossed, then you won't have to wonder who the father of your children are. A DNA test after the birth is your only option. Maybe you'll be with a new guy by then.
I got a headache just trying to read her post. While I can understand and forgive some simple errors (particularly for those who are not native english speakers which is obviously NOT the case here)... you couldn't graduate the 2nd grade writing like that. God help the taxpayers who are likely to be supporting these kids instead of the mother and father of them.
J_9
Jan 28, 2010, 08:22 AM
God help the taxpayers who are likely to be supporting these kids instead of the mother and father of them.
Thank goodness I am OCD and anal about spelling, punctuation and grammar... it drives my children crazy, but it is their best subject in school. :D