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babybooyoung
Jan 25, 2010, 06:23 AM
I need advice I'm 4 months pregnant and my fiancés first but my second child he's amazing with my 2 year old but I'm very moody and rude to him I try but end up short and go crazy so he decided he was going to leave I have no clue what to do he has been woring 40 hours straight getting no sleep so ithink he's not thinking straight and everyone says give him space I don't want him leaving me I love him what can or do I do

tickle
Jan 25, 2010, 06:33 AM
Curb your tongue and give him space; nagging and worrying him won't help your situaiton. Disclipline yourself, leave the house for a walk if you feel a good nag coming on. How old are you anyway ?

Tick

redhed35
Jan 25, 2010, 06:36 AM
Talk to him,explain that your hormones are all over the place,that it will settle down.

Listen to him,ask him what are his concerns.

Involve him in the pregnancy.

Hopefully this is just a bump in the road of your relationship and with patience,kindness and communication you both can work it out.

If not,that's another days worry.

But for now,as I said,sit him down and talk it out.

babybooyoung
Jan 25, 2010, 06:41 AM
I'm 22 and that's the hard part we have been having problems in our pregnancy I'm on pelvic rest walks aren't allowed

J_9
Jan 25, 2010, 06:44 AM
You need to realize these are your hormones talking and bite your tongue before you lash out.

babybooyoung
Jan 25, 2010, 06:46 AM
So what d I do now? WHEN HE SAYS HES LEAVING AND IS DONE ?

J_9
Jan 25, 2010, 06:48 AM
You just need to give him time to cool down. When it's all over and done you need to apologize.

babybooyoung
Jan 25, 2010, 06:57 AM
I will thank you do you think it will be OK ?

J_9
Jan 25, 2010, 06:59 AM
I hope it will be okay. But since we don't know your boyfriend, we can't say for sure.