justine93
Jan 22, 2010, 06:17 AM
I have'nt seen my biological father since I born and now I'm 17 years old I'm trying to find out but I can't find I have tried to ask my mom about it she get so much upset when I ask her she don't even answer me.please I real need your help I don't want to die without seeying my father.so please tell me what will I do to find him I have being alone for a long time I need my father's shoulder to cry on.please help me I'm a missfather
JudyKayTee
Jan 22, 2010, 06:27 AM
No one here can help you until you are of legal age.
Have you talked to an adult about missing your father, looking for him, what you expect your relationship to be when you do find him? That might be very helpful to you right now.
This is not a question about education or high school and I have asked that it be moved to missing persons.
Lonely_19
Jan 24, 2010, 07:50 AM
Try talking to your mom about how you feel, why it is important for you to meet your biological father, etc.
If she still refuses to help you and/or listen, then find an adult who you can trust and explain your feelings and situation to them, and they will be able to provide you with the help that you need.. or at the very least some solid wisdom/advice.
Also, if you know your fathers name you can try searching for him, and contacting him yourself.
I grew up not knowing my biological father as well, and I know how difficult it is.
Just know that there are people out there that understand, and care, and that it is not your loss, sweety, it's his.