eclecticsoul1
Jan 19, 2010, 03:15 AM
Hey all,
So here's my dilemma, I am really into a girl that I have known for along time (some 3+ years now). We just recently reconnected after about a year and a half of not speaking. Here's the back story... I met her via an online community about 4 years ago... we met and hit it off but never started dating because although she was out of her previous relationship at the time, she was still very much in love with her ex... so naturally I backed off... eventually I began to date the girl who is now my ex and while we were together, I had little to no contact with my current interest... but now that we have reconnected it seems to be going very well... every night we stay up to the crack of dawn discussing absolutely EVERYTHING... We talk several times throughout the day... Mind you she initiate most of the contact... And there is a apparent sexual attraction... In gist, we just mesh really well... But it seems as though she has issues letting me in because of her failed past relationships... And unfortunately, tomorrow she is head back up state too school... I don't want her to feel pressured... because nothing will probably scare her off faster but I really don't know what to do... or what to think... any ideas?
So here's my dilemma, I am really into a girl that I have known for along time (some 3+ years now). We just recently reconnected after about a year and a half of not speaking. Here's the back story... I met her via an online community about 4 years ago... we met and hit it off but never started dating because although she was out of her previous relationship at the time, she was still very much in love with her ex... so naturally I backed off... eventually I began to date the girl who is now my ex and while we were together, I had little to no contact with my current interest... but now that we have reconnected it seems to be going very well... every night we stay up to the crack of dawn discussing absolutely EVERYTHING... We talk several times throughout the day... Mind you she initiate most of the contact... And there is a apparent sexual attraction... In gist, we just mesh really well... But it seems as though she has issues letting me in because of her failed past relationships... And unfortunately, tomorrow she is head back up state too school... I don't want her to feel pressured... because nothing will probably scare her off faster but I really don't know what to do... or what to think... any ideas?