Donna:
You can file jointly with your husband and you both CHOSE to be treated as resident aliens. This will allow you to claim the $11,400 joint standard deduction plus two $3,650 personal exemption (for yourself and your husband) .
You will need to submit Form W-7 to apply for an ITIN for your husband . A notarized photocopy of his passport needs to be stapled to the W-7.
His physical location is irrelevent; he could be on Mars for all the IRS cares.
The downside is that you must declare ALL 2009 world-wide income (yours and his), but you can at least partially offset any double taxation by claiming a Foreign Tax Credit (Form 1116).
Even with the downside, this is probably the best way for you to file.
If you want professional help doing this, email me at
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