emilio7
Jan 17, 2010, 12:58 AM
Hey y'all this is my first post. All right to start my ex and I dated for a year and about 3 months. At the beginning of the summer '09 she dumped me saying "she wasn't ready for anything serious" and that "she needed to be single". During the summer when I would rarely see her she would act funny and almost act jealous towards me.
Around the beginning of the fall semester I confronted her on her "mix signals" and she completely and totally denied it, saying that "she wwas moving on" and "trying to see what else is out there."... I took that as a hint and cut off all contact with her (I would only see her at tailgates on saturdays and I would make meaningless conversation with her).
Then the day after her 21st birthday came and everything has been turned upside down since. The morning after her 21st birthday I was in my accounting class when I got a text saying "you didn't text me yesterday?". Now the day before her birthday (Saturday) I ran into her INPERSON and wished her a happy birthday. She basically went on to say that she was hurt/surprised that I didn't call or text her on her birthday... then started to spill her guts about how I had forgotten she existed and had completely moved on with girls, while she hadn't. I offered to meet up with her in person and talk about this and she replied "I'm not ready to act on anything yet and stir things up"??
Ever since then it's been a weird/confusing turn of events and most recently today I was driving with one of my friends when I saw her with another guy driving her car.
Around the beginning of the fall semester I confronted her on her "mix signals" and she completely and totally denied it, saying that "she wwas moving on" and "trying to see what else is out there."... I took that as a hint and cut off all contact with her (I would only see her at tailgates on saturdays and I would make meaningless conversation with her).
Then the day after her 21st birthday came and everything has been turned upside down since. The morning after her 21st birthday I was in my accounting class when I got a text saying "you didn't text me yesterday?". Now the day before her birthday (Saturday) I ran into her INPERSON and wished her a happy birthday. She basically went on to say that she was hurt/surprised that I didn't call or text her on her birthday... then started to spill her guts about how I had forgotten she existed and had completely moved on with girls, while she hadn't. I offered to meet up with her in person and talk about this and she replied "I'm not ready to act on anything yet and stir things up"??
Ever since then it's been a weird/confusing turn of events and most recently today I was driving with one of my friends when I saw her with another guy driving her car.