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sillygiggles
Jan 16, 2010, 12:50 AM
I met a girl, we started to click quite a bit, did a few things together then I heard that she had a boyfriend about 2 hours away... He isn't a real good boyfriend from what her best friend tell me...
So I started to hang out with her, we are really close. Like to the point of she talks to me more than him, and trusts me more... so what should I do?

amicon
Jan 16, 2010, 02:19 AM
Simple answer,she has a boyfriend-she's off limits.

redhed35
Jan 16, 2010, 02:51 AM
Maybe she likes you around while he is away?

If he was so bad,why does she not end it with him to be with you?

As amicon said,she has a boyfriend,move on,she is off limits.

adam_89
Jan 16, 2010, 04:29 AM
It doesn't matter how bad he is to her. You can't do anything about it. Just remain friends and if she wants to break it off with that guy to be with you then she will. Otherwise she might just be using you as a filler while he is away.

I wish
Jan 16, 2010, 08:49 AM
...so what should i do?

You should be her friend.

If you can't handle a simple friendship and instead hoping for something more, then you're setting yourself up for disappointment.

As long as she has a boyfriend she's off-limits. If she starts cheating with you, what does that say about her?

asking
Jan 16, 2010, 09:00 AM
Now that you've made her dependent on you for company, you could tell her you are attracted to her and want her to dump her boyfriend or else lose your friendship. That would put her in an awkward place. But that wouldn't be very nice, would it?

rayhen57
Jan 17, 2010, 03:32 AM
If she loves you she`l break up with this other guy so wake up man and tell her to choose who she wants to be with

treptrip
Oct 20, 2010, 12:18 AM
If she loves you she`l break up with this other guy so wake up man and tell her to choose who she wants to be with

rayhen57 that isn't the smartest quote in the world no offence because you would put a lot of pressure on the girls psyche and which ever decision she makes will be terrible.

1. She goes with bf- she may have those feelings for him and that definitely will hurt the relationship

2.She goes with him-same outcome but she may also look for another person to fill in the holes your leaving in her heart.


My advice for you just don't crowd her or make her make a descision and see and react to what happens