sag007
Jan 15, 2010, 01:47 AM
Edited for chat speak / text talk / grammar / spelling
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Hi...
I have a boyfriend and we've been in a relationship for the past 1 year and even my friend also know that... everything was fine but recently I saw my friend's cell and found her sent item in the cell was to my boyfriend saying that "she has controlled her feelings towards him because of me and she loves him very much"... After seeing that message really I was so shocked I would not react at that moment and kept slient for myself... and didn't ask to her also and him also... I didn't expect that my friend will do that to me as we are so close to each other :( dam it hurt me a lot... when I didn't speak for 2 days, she questioned me what happen and then I told her that I saw the message sent to my boyfriend... so she explained "that day i was depressed so he asked me what's the matter, why so dull and all so i told him that cause of my past love life i'm very much depressed for that and all." So he said me to tell I LOVE U and it will be OK and then she started flirting with him for a while (I don't know how much truth in that), when I asked my guy about this matter he says that you don't trust me and if you don't have trust it's a waste to be together and he explained to me that she is only my good friend nothing more than that I just speak with her closely... I don't know what I should do, its really hurting me still.. I want them both in my life... can any one help me in this situtation?
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Hi...
I have a boyfriend and we've been in a relationship for the past 1 year and even my friend also know that... everything was fine but recently I saw my friend's cell and found her sent item in the cell was to my boyfriend saying that "she has controlled her feelings towards him because of me and she loves him very much"... After seeing that message really I was so shocked I would not react at that moment and kept slient for myself... and didn't ask to her also and him also... I didn't expect that my friend will do that to me as we are so close to each other :( dam it hurt me a lot... when I didn't speak for 2 days, she questioned me what happen and then I told her that I saw the message sent to my boyfriend... so she explained "that day i was depressed so he asked me what's the matter, why so dull and all so i told him that cause of my past love life i'm very much depressed for that and all." So he said me to tell I LOVE U and it will be OK and then she started flirting with him for a while (I don't know how much truth in that), when I asked my guy about this matter he says that you don't trust me and if you don't have trust it's a waste to be together and he explained to me that she is only my good friend nothing more than that I just speak with her closely... I don't know what I should do, its really hurting me still.. I want them both in my life... can any one help me in this situtation?
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-chat-speak-no-text-talk-303157.html (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-chat-speak-no-text-talk-303157.html)