mudweiser
Jan 12, 2010, 04:52 PM
One of my friends, let's call her Mindy, has been seeing this new guy for about a month.
Mindy is barely legal, only 18. She's my friend sister in law and I just met her a few months ago. So we are not that close, plus I'm a couple years older than her.
Anyway, Mindy recently asked me "what can you take to conceive better?". I was confused by the question. She started telling me how this guy and her want to get pregnant by March [oh he's 31].
This is just crazy. She hasn't even finished high school, she just dropped out. She really has no goals in life. Her parents are also high school dropouts that had her at 16. They went through tough times but now the dad has a decent job-- needless to say they survived.
I kept saying things like:
-don't you want to travel?
-you tell me how much you want to go to the bar and your not even old enough to get in the bar-- once your 19 you'll want to go to the bars but you can't because you'll be stuck at home with a baby
-you don't even have your driver's license yet.
-you just met the guy
-how could he possibly love you if he wants to impregnate you at such a tender age and tarnish any sort of future you could have had
I don't know what else to do. She's pretty set on this thing.
-sigh-
Mindy is barely legal, only 18. She's my friend sister in law and I just met her a few months ago. So we are not that close, plus I'm a couple years older than her.
Anyway, Mindy recently asked me "what can you take to conceive better?". I was confused by the question. She started telling me how this guy and her want to get pregnant by March [oh he's 31].
This is just crazy. She hasn't even finished high school, she just dropped out. She really has no goals in life. Her parents are also high school dropouts that had her at 16. They went through tough times but now the dad has a decent job-- needless to say they survived.
I kept saying things like:
-don't you want to travel?
-you tell me how much you want to go to the bar and your not even old enough to get in the bar-- once your 19 you'll want to go to the bars but you can't because you'll be stuck at home with a baby
-you don't even have your driver's license yet.
-you just met the guy
-how could he possibly love you if he wants to impregnate you at such a tender age and tarnish any sort of future you could have had
I don't know what else to do. She's pretty set on this thing.
-sigh-