I am a 35 year old and seem to rather quickly, I take from 2-3 aftetr penetration. I hear some say they can go for hours and it worries me. Can I find out if that is quick or average and what I can do to last longer. I also have a big curve in my enis and was wondering if that is part of the problem. Thanks

Is it an every time kind of thing? If I may quote Something About Mary, "clean the pipes first". It's understandable that some people just don't last very long... especially if they have sex rarely or are overly concerned about finishing quickly. (The more you tell yourself not to, the more quick you will).

So, make it happen once yourself... or ask her to help. The second time around will take more time. If that's still not long enough, then go for three. There's plenty you can do for her while you "recover". If you don't believe me, ask her.

Another trick is to wear two condoms. It really decreases the sensitivity.

Some people will say to distract yourself. I don't know about that one. Thinking about baseball or my grandmother only ever made the whole experience weird and nasty.

As for the whole curve thing... can't help you there. Although you may want to try different positions to utilize it. There are certain places that a straight line can't touch, if you know what I mean.

Good luck.