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Ridergirl19
Jan 10, 2010, 07:08 PM
My boyfriend and I are in our mid-twenties and have been living together for two years, recently we have decided to move in with his parents for three months in order to save a little more to buy a house. Lately, I have been threatening to break up with him and starting fight because I think I am scared about this big move. Well, he just told me that he doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore and that he needs time to think. It is breaking my heart because I know that he is the one but I will give him his space. This happened two days ago and he says that he will be here every night so I don't have to sleep in the condo alone, I told him that he didn't need to do that but he said he would anyway. He says he still loves me but he is just not sure if we should be together. I want to be with this man forever, but I do think we need to put the househunting and ring shopping on hold... PLEASE HELP>>>WHAT SHOULD I DO?

jaime90
Jan 10, 2010, 07:36 PM
Respect how he feels. Give him his space. Love is commitment. If this guy truly loves you, he will stick with you. If he needs some time to think, give it to him. When he has had his time, come back together and have a discussion about where you will both go from there.