3 years ago I met the boy I swore I was going to marry! there was only one problem I was pregnant when I met him we were both 16 so of course i didn't expect him to stick around. and as soon as my daughter was born he flew the coop. we did have plans for an adoption but after having the baby i couldnt imagine giving her up..for an entire year i was completely depressed lost alot of weight lost alot of friends just stopped doing alot. finally a whole year later he came to his sences and we started dating. we eventually moved in together for 5 months then got in a huge fight and i moved out we have been on and off since them which has been about another year. I do love him, but now I met this other guy who actually treats me incredible, lets me know that i am the only one he is thinking about, a true hopeless romantic and possibly everything any girl including me could ever want. its something amazing that i dont want to give up, but I still hang out with my ex and I miss him more and more, no matter how much i think of just the bad things tht happened between us or how much i should hate him. I really just can't and now its just killing me i dont know what to do. SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME IM NOT CRAZY?!?!?

1- He didn't "come to his senses" he saw a pregnant 16 year old and he didn't want to get tangled up in that mess.

2-If your off and on and off and on that's not really a relationship. When it comes to relationships like that best thing to do is to drop them.

3- Your what 19/20 now? Go on move on. Finish what you had with this on/off guy and make it clear to him that it's over and that this whole on/off thing is something you don't want.

4- Get to know this other guy a little more. Enjoy being single.

Your not crazy but your acting like a 13 year old. You need to calm down. This isn't brain surgery it's simply dating.

Now go on and have some fun, your still young. I shouldn't have to warn you about safe sex now...

Yes, your jumping from guy to guy. First of all, your main priority shouldn't be a guy, it should be your daughter. The guy thing should be on the back burner for now. I am not saying you should stop dating and stop your life. But heck, you have plenty of time for that. Not good to jump from one to another, and your daughter sees that all going on. YOU have to be mature about this, and think like a mom.