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princess00
Jan 9, 2010, 08:09 PM
Hey I'm really very sad nowadays because my boyfriend wants to breakup with me. The reason was that I doubted him but it came out that he is faithful to me. Now he says what's the use of dragging out a relationship which has no trust. But now I seriously trust him a lot. I promised him that I won't ever do this again but he's not ready to listen. He's having his exams right now so he told me that we will talk about this after his exams. But then after his exams are getting over in 5 days my exams are starting and after my exams will get over my b'day is coming and you know the worst thing...
I got him as my boyfriend on my b'day before 2 years and I seriously don't want to lose him plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz z help me I am desperate to get him back

Edited for chat speak

Alty
Jan 9, 2010, 08:35 PM
First, chat speak is not allowed on this site. Write in full words, complete sentences in the best English you're capable of.

There's nothing you can do, the balls in his court. He either decides to forgive you and takes you back, or he moves on with someone that will trust him. Trust is huge in a relationship, and your lack of trust in him may have been the final blow.

Good luck.

jaime90
Jan 10, 2010, 12:32 PM
You are 50% of the relationship, he is 50% of the relationship. If 50% of your relationship doesn't want to be involved anymore, it's not going to work. Trying to get the guy to like you is controlling, manipulative, and disrespectful of his feelings. It is his choice. All you can do, is respect him, and leave HIS decision, up to HIM.

I wish
Jan 11, 2010, 08:24 AM
He's right, you guys should focus on your exams first and figure out the relationship afterwards.