I live with my girlfriend and her son. I have took the role as the father but I can't say I really want this child as my own. In our relationship I deal with her racist mother and drunk father and his comments. Her older brother always finds a way to interfere with our relationship. She deals with my consint yelling and lack of maturity. But the weird thing is we can't be without each other, we love each other but we also try to change the other person. My anger is also an issue?

Does not sound like much of a relaitionship, So split up for a bit

Sounds to me that you have a lot of serious issues. I can't see why in the world this lady is with you at all. She should be running for her life!

It sounds like she's already had a rough life, so why would someone who claims to love her try to make things worse? She deserves someone that treats her with love and respect and who accepts her child as his own. She doesn't need someone who doesn't want to be a father, someone that continually tells her how bad her family is, or someone that yells at her constantly!

The kindest thing you could do would be to end the relationship and go No Contact.