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prolady256
Jan 7, 2010, 11:47 PM
Good Morning,

Iwould like to know what can I do, I`ve being married for a year now but my husband he is cheating on me I caught last year with 15 girls that he was cheating with and I ask him he apologies but know if like stupid because he is still doing it, when I want to go the mall or somewhere he goes alone I fill like he is ashame of me and he still phone his ex girl friends I really don't know what do but I`m thinking to go back home and ask him for adervoce I that wise for me to do? And we don't make love anymore we only had sex last year end of November

amicon
Jan 8, 2010, 12:12 AM
Why did you marry him? And how long were you together before getting married?

artlady
Jan 8, 2010, 12:21 AM
This appears to be a marriage in name only.

All of the elements that we think of in marriage,fidelity,respect,working together toward a common goal are missing in your relationship.

One woman could be seen as a mistake but to do this on a regular basis is showing a total lack of respect for you and it seems clear that he has no intention of changing this pattern.

Was this an arranged marriage?
Did you set down ground rules about your expectations before marriage?

If he is not willing to change and he has broken your trust beyond repair,I see no alternative but to sever the marriage.