Did you keep the child? If not, how do you live with the guilt? Been in an unhappy marriage for years and have 2 children. The other man is a family friend. I feel like the biggest whore in the world yet I can't be the only person who has had an affair. Please help!

Someone will come along with experience, but personally, you need to come clean about your affair. I don't care how unhappy your marriage is, you had other options. Now it's time to be the bigger mature person and own up to your mistake

To answer your question, yes you keep the child. I do not agree with abortion