In school there are a group of girls 'the popular girls' I do nothing to them , I say nothing to them . One of them I went to primary school with but only for 3 months because I moved but ever since she has a huge problem with me? I don't know why? She often gets bored and leaves me alone for a while.. I thought recently we were OK because me being the nice quite person that I am talked to her when she was on her own and didn't have any of her supposeable buddies around and the next day when she was with them she did it to me again... in the last 4 months she teamed up with an ex enemy whom hates for no reason because supposeably I'm obsessed with my hair (like she's not d !) exuse my french anyway between the first girls possie and the second girls possie.. the are now all together and unimagineably threating I have confidence problems but I seem 2 have come out of myself recently and started 2 feel pretty as everyone told me but they noticed and took me again and again and again . My siblings want to sort them out shall we say but I think that may make it worse.. even though they only want to help .I can't even walk past them without wanting to die and disappear they just find anything to knock me down.. I ttry not to let them see how much it effects me but I don't think I can hide for much longer.. u see some people might see me as a dork or a nerd but I'm not I'm not even a swat in school I'm an average pass student.. I don't speak out in class because I like 2 go unoticed I don't even talk 2 many people but my friends... they only do it to me... lots of people have given me advice , teachers that have found me in the bathroom slouched down collaapsed because they make me want to die people always let me fix let me help but really they are only making it worse as they won't always be around... I'm ordinary but quiet that's my problem I say nothing to no one and yet they still won't leave me alone.. even when I go into town wit hmy friends I go out of my way to avoid them because just seeing them ruins my day... my family it does effect me but not this much I don't think I pretend it doesn't bother me but for much longer I ask? Till I finish school... no what if it happens in a job ,what will I do.. quit? I just can't take it anymore... help me please before I do something stupid... everyone tells me they do it because they're jealous , that I'm competition for them... maybe their right but... I'm not being cocky but I am a better person than them I just forget all this when I'm near them...

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You are right you are a better person, don't let them get to you. Ignore the mean people in life, the reason bullies do what they do is because they want a reaction from you. If you don't give them a reaction they are going to be dipribed of what they want. They will eventually move on from hurting you. Stick with your friends and surround yourself with them.

Can you confide in one or more friends to walk with you at the times they approach you? Maybe after a while they will see that you are not alone and stop.

Also, it's good that you have spoken to teachers about it. You may want to tell your parents, school counselor, and heck, have a talk with the principal about them. Maybe they are doing it to others too. These girls can be corrected without having the blame fall on you being a tattletale.

Just try and walk with others at the times you know they will be next to you.

Thank you but even when I'm with friends they say nasty little remarks that really hit home but when I can I smile at them it really ps them off.. maybe in time it will be OK but I don't want to tell anybody because that would be making a bug deal out of it... :) thanks though

Like you said, you lack confidence. Some people take advantage of that and one thing you should know about them is that they are really full of themselves. You shouldn't let them bother you and don't become friends with the so-called "popular girls" you were talking about. I'm sure not all of them are like this, but it sounds like a lot of your friends are.

I think the best thing for you to do is to avoid those people and find other people to be friends with. Also try finding an activity at school that intrests you. You may meet people that share the same interests and you can build more confidence.

But the thing is I really want to but I'm 2 shy because I haevent even done it yet you know sign up for tag rugby but I'm already worried about the girls already on the team :(

Well to get over your shyness your going to have to show some backbone, get assertive and show them you mean business. I think you should sign up for it when you can and it would be the best time to show them you believe in yourself and people will respect you.

I'll try but probably myself in the process lmao jokes :D