I lost my son to the system about eight years ago how do I get in contact with him again

I lost my rights to m y son about eight years ago he is now 14years old how can I find him if he got adopted?

Janie, Please be patient. We are all volunteers here. The people who may be able to answer your question may be at work or tending to families and loved ones right now.

However, to get a proper answer you are going to have to provide more details. These people will need to know where in the world you are (this is a world wide website) as well as circumstances surrounding your loss of rights.

You wait 4 more years and then try posting on some of the many reunion sites (see the sticky at the top of this forum) to see if he wants to be in touch with you.

You could try the agency that placed your son and see if they will contact the adoptive parents to allow contact.