I have never been so certain about something.
I don't want to sound like every other high school girl saying they're definitely in love and then breaking up a few months later.. but..

I. Am. In. Love.

It's not the kind of cliché young love. It's the selfess kind.. where you no longer care about your needs but what the other person needs.. you want to become everything that THEY deserve.. their happiness becomes your joy, and their sadness your grief.. you prefer to give than to have received.. when you think of what the future has to bring, their in it.

The Love we share is amazing.. we're so young, and yet were willing to wait until were older for something more real. Being in love wants you to wait.. you don't have to second guess wanting to have sexual relations with each other. Being in Love wants you to wait till your ready till marriage binds you into one. That's how I feel..

I just want to know what you guys think about that ? If that is actual love or I'm just being naïve.. as I said.. I am young, but love is not a feeling.. it's a choice. And its just something I know.


I'm only 15..
I don't mind any opinions negative or positive. I just want to know what you think about that.

I think your post is lovely,and mature and you sound in love.

Respect and communication is also important,enjoy your time together,first love is tender,take your time,don't rush anything and be kind to each other.

The Love we share is amazing.. we're so young, and yet were willing to wait until were older for something more real. being in love wants you to wait..

Like you said, you're only 15, so you don't need to rush anything. Just enjoy your time together and continue to grow together as a couple. Continue to build a strong relationship and see where that leads.

I think that you have a great start on a lasting kind of love. You're 15; you have so much more to learn about love, but you're seriously on the way to experiencing it.

Stay focused on school, finishing your education, and finding out what you're supposed to do with your life. When love comes alongside of someone with goals and dreams, it helps foster a dedication to achieving greatness. It's wonderful that you are starting to feel the beginning "blush of love" (as artlady said) at your age.

It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. Keep your eyes on your dreams and if this boy is the right one for you, he'll help you achieve those dreams... and you, his.

You sound very mature for your age. I met my fiancé when I was 15, but we didn't start seriously dating until I was about 17. Just be cautious, and take things slow. Time is on your side! Remember that on top of all the things you mentioned, love is also commitment, and endures ALL things. Protect the love you share, and make sure that you stick with it through everything!

If it is "love" and that is hard to say, then it will still be real love in 4 or 5 or 10 years.

So you date and mature and grow as he does and see what happens

Love can happy to any of us at any time. Just because you are young doesn't mean that you canmt experince love. The very fact that you are asking the question that you have, shows that you are mature and emotionally intelligent.

Teh only thing that I will say, is that it can take time to know what love truly is. When I look back at my life, there were times that I thought I was in love, but in retrospect I now now that it was infatuation (even though I was 'sure' at the time!). There is a fine line between infatuation and love in the beginning. Infatuation can make you feel like you are in loveand everything is wonderful and there is just this one, wonderful man... aaaaaahh!!

Just be careful, andtake care of yourself. You are very young still. Just remember, that lromantic love is not everything in life. Make sure you also stay true to yourself, your needs and your goals. WHen you are young and in love it can feellike nothing else matters... but it does. School matters, your health matters, your friends matters and you matter. Look after yourself and be sensible.

Who knows... only time will tell if your love is long-lasting.

I met my fiancé a year ago, he was fifteen and I sixteen. I know exactly how you feel.