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angelinaballerina24
Jan 6, 2010, 05:54 PM
Okay so I REALLY like this guy that I don't know.. he goes to my school and I think he might be the one...

Scleros
Jan 6, 2010, 06:58 PM
what does it mean if u love a guy u dont know

It means you've been watching too many Disney movies and have a warped sense of love and reality. You "love" the idea of him. He's a canvas for whatever characteristics your mind concocts and decides to paint. Until you talk to him and actually begin to know him it's all a fantasy played out between your ears.


he goes to my school and i think he might be the one...

He may be, why don't you go talk to him and find out? At the very least, reality may be able to slip a foot in the door.

I wish
Jan 7, 2010, 09:36 AM
How old are you? Have you talked to him before? How well do you know him? Does he know how you feel?

artlady
Jan 7, 2010, 09:43 AM
How can you REALLY like someone you don't know?
That makes no sense my dear.

You could possibly like what you have seen and or like what you have heard but if you don't know the person,you can't honestly REALLY like him.

How old are you? You sound a little too young to be thinking so seriously about someone being the one.

HistorianChick
Jan 7, 2010, 09:48 AM
You can't love someone you don't know.

Love comes from sharing experiences, trust in one another, communication, responsibility, honesty, and so much more. None of these things happen when you don't even know the person.

You have a crush.

jaime90
Jan 7, 2010, 06:37 PM
You cannot love someone you don't know. When you LOOK at someone, and have feelings for them, you are basing your feelings for them on the way they APPEAR. On top of that, love is NOT feelings for a person. It is commitment, trust, respect, willingness to die for someone- all of which I am sure, is greatly lacking in your situation. You do not love this boy, you saw him, you fell in love with his appearance, and now you think he is the "one." This is a warped view of what love is. Love is not simply romance, and it's not the 'fairytale' you believe it to be.

jmjoseph
Jan 7, 2010, 06:45 PM
You are smitten with the appearance of a guy at your school.

Don't confuse THAT with real love.

amicon
Jan 8, 2010, 04:15 AM
You're having a crush on someone you don't know.
That doesn't mean you love them.

flower81
Jan 8, 2010, 04:36 AM
Its wasting your time

J_9
Jan 8, 2010, 07:35 AM
It's called infatuation... not love.