My boyfriend is constantly messin and flirtin with other girls it really breaks my heart and if he don't change I'm not going to be the only one getting hurt!! By that I mean the girl he is flirtin with wants to date him again so I maght have to get in a fight even though I really know that she is not worth it but I know that he is soooo... I guess what I'm trying to say is I have told him it hurts me I have cryed so many time he just acts like he cares for a minute then the next minute he is texting her again when I found out my heart literally dropped to the floor I was crushed!!

Now I have a question I'm only 16 and I really do love him I don't know how too make him stop it is breaking my heart I really want to hurt myself... can anyone give me some really good advise because I really need some!!

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When a guy treats you like this, you dump him, as it's a sure sign he doesn't care that much about you, and doesn't respect your feelings at all. He may say he does, but that's a lie he tells you to stop you from leaving him.

If you put up with this treatment, you will be inviting more of it.

You may feel like you love this guy, but remember, love isn't romantic feelings- it is commitment, trust, honesty, willingness to die for another person. You don't deserve to be treated like this. It may be difficult, but you're only 16. For your own good, you need to move on to a guy that you can see yourself being with your entire life. A guy that you deserve, and who values your opinion, and cherishes your heart- not crushes it. Just keep it quick and clean- leave the guy. And don't worry! Worrying does you no good, and will only hurt you more. There's a guy out there for you, who will treat you right, and who WANTS to treat you right. Just show a little patience, and get this lousy guy out of your life so that someone you actually deserve can come in.

I think making friends, and having fun, is what being 16 is all about,

It is very simple, to make sure he does not hurt you like that again, you dump him, can't understand why you would even give such a jerk even a second though.

You need someone who is willing to be in a real relationship, this "child" is only interested in his desires and concerns.

Tell him to turn off his phone and tell him that this is a serious matter and if he messes up again that you have to break up with him.