View Full Version : I miss my ex but he can't stand me
haley10
Jan 5, 2010, 09:37 PM
well me and my ex dated for 6 months. He was my first real relationship, I loved him so much. Well he broke up with me cause he was suppose to be moving next year and he didn't want it to make it harder on the both of us. We started as trying to be friends but we just grew apart then I started to talk to this other guy like a month 1/2 after we broke up and he found out about it and got pretty mad. My ex started talking crap about me to everyone saying that I treated him like crap and he can't stand me and all kinds of other stuff. He started partying and doing things I would have never thought he would have done. He also started messing around with other girls but never dating them. He would always text me random stuff out of nowhere cussing me out or arguing with me about something. We have been broke up for 4 months now and now I have been datin the guy I use to talk to after me and my ex broke up, we have been dating for a few days now and my ex is still the same ole person partying and stuff. When he found out we were dating he brung it up to my best friend that he hopes this new guy I have treats me bad and everything. Like I said I still miss my ex more than anything and I just can get him and the memories we had out of my head. What do you think is going throuh my ex's mind? Do you think he still kind of cares? What do you think?
puppipaparazzi
Jan 5, 2010, 09:46 PM
He definitely has had a special bond with you, however he's moved onto whatever it is that guys like this move onto... the reason why he keeps contacting you with the B.S. and telling his friends a bunch of trash is because he is just trying to "piss on " his territory. He doesn't want you, but doesn't want any other guy to be with you either. Enjoy your new b/f and block the ex and move on... he's poison.
amicon
Jan 6, 2010, 02:48 AM
His your EX ignore his childish little mind games-delete him from your life and move on. He's an immature jerk,pay no attention to him.
Romefalls19
Jan 6, 2010, 05:07 AM
First thing, change your phone number to avoid his childish actions. Second, break up with your current guy as it's not fair to share you with another guy. You haven't healed from your break up and if you cannot give yourself completely to your boyfriend, then it's not fair.
talaniman
Jan 6, 2010, 08:01 AM
You broke up. What you do is none of his business, and he has no right to be mad, or jealous, or act like a butt hole.
Don't allow this kind of treatment, and do what ever it takes to keep him out of your life.
He had his chance, and blew it, and is off doing his thing, so do yours.
Have no more to do with him. He is trying to make you feel guilty so after he has his fun he can comeback and take up where he left off. Not fair to you at all.
liz28
Jan 6, 2010, 11:22 AM
You ever heard the saying "misery loves company"? Well he is misery and is trying to rain on your parade. You will always have memories of him because after all he is part of your past but the past is the past and now you need to focus on the present.