Please help me.Hello, my name is Sarah Bozman and my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant. We also had a miscarriage last year (2009) at the end of February. Now my periods have been 32 days then 38 days, then 32 days, then 38, not last month I was suppose to start on day 32 but ended up being late and didn’t start until 40 days. Now this month (December) I was suppose to start on day 38 which was December 31st. Now all that happen was I was spotting but it lasted at least 3 days or so, and I took a pregnancy test and it was negative. Now for the last 2 weeks I have been getting sick in the morning and as of today I am still getting sick, feeling sick to my stomach, headaches, tired during the day, I don’t know what’s up. I have a dr. appt next Tuesday but not with my OBGYN, but I think I should make one to go see them. Please help me if you can, or give me advice, besides going to see the dr. Could you just give me your opinion

It is possible that the pregnancy test was a false negative. Your symptoms seem to match those of pregnancy symptoms, however I also had a miscarriage towards the beginning of 09 and it was really tough on me, so when we started trying again it was almost as if I was looking for pregnancy symptoms. If you are having proplems getting pregnant try taking birthcontrol or 3-4 months and then just get off it and see what happends, that's what we did for all 3 of our pregnancies and it seemed to work for us. We were also told by a doctor that we would never have kids without the help of fertillity pills or invitro. So there is hope out there for everyone. Good Luck and post back about your doc apt coming up.