I have been best friends with this girl since we were at nursery. She felt like my sister and I was always comfortable around her. We had a sleepover with her and her sister and it was going great , we were having fun. She kept posting things on her twitter page saying that she loved someone and she wanted them to love her to. I found out in 2009 that she was a lesbian and I didn't really have a problem with it. I wasn't really weirded out or anything.So at the sleepover her sister told me that my best friend had confessed to fancying me! I felt sick. At other sleepovers we had slept in the same bed but I never found it weird because I really looked at her as a sister! I thought I was going to cry and I really don't want to see her again until the "feelings" pass. I don't know if she really meant it because sometimes she can be a bit strange and gets stupid ideas into her head. She denied it but I could tell she was lying. I don't have anything against lesbians but I don't like the fact that she fancies me! I don't want to talk face to face to her about it in person even if its not true I feel weird about the fact that she told her sister she fancied me! This has just stayed between the 3 of us. The thing is we meet up twice,maybe even three times a week and I know I have to see her at some point! I don't really know how to handel this because Im only turning 13 this year! I really feel like I want to ditch her as a best friend and just forget her but I know that's not right. I also don't want to lose her sister because we are friends but if I stop seeing my best friend then I won't be able to see her sister either. Can you help me try and solve this Im really creeped out and I can't understand why she feels like this? Im so confused and un happy!

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

I think you have no choice but to be honest, and realize that things have changed between you. You can be friends, but not as close as you once were. Sorry, but friends, and people, will come, and go through your life forever. But that doesn't mean they will stay the same, and be your best friends forever. So just be honest about how you feel about her, and her sister, and let them have time, and space, to understand where your coming from.