I am so stupid. I need answers quick. Yea I love him.I have since sept. but I blurted it out. We haven't evenkissed. Do you think I'm crazy?will he break it off? We are young, he does have other girls waiting for him. I am so scared.

Can I ask what ages you both are?

I agree - how old are the two of you?

Yes more information please!

13

So what's the situation now-are you still dating?

We still date as of now. We have no way of communicating besides school

I'm going to turn the question around... What is love to you?

What does "I love you" mean?

The reason I ask is because I'm interested to know what you think love is.

But you must be dating outside school? Still not enough info to give you advice.

It means I care a lot. I want to be with you

Yes we are dating out of school

Hello Abby,

What did he say or do after you told him that you love him?

Those are good things. To care about someone and want to be with him/her is a good thing and they are both parts of love.

It sounds like you are a sweet person who has found someone that you love to be with, to hang around, and to share experiences with. That's awesome. No, you're not crazy, you're 13.

I remember being 13 and how much every emotion was heightened. Let this pan out. You said something that you were feeling and that was honest.

As you get older, you'll find that love changes and grows deeper and, yes, sometimes more complicated, but it is rooted in caring about someone, wanting to be with them, sharing moments, and making memories.

You have SO many years ahead of you, so many opportunities, laughs, tears, memories; enjoy life today. This boy may turn into someone special, but don't try to rush things. :)

Well, nothing. I ad to leave he said he'd see me tomorrow.

* Since i was soworked upearlier i left something out*




I flippin said jk. JK?! OMG I AM DUMB

Hes going to leave me sometime this week. His best friend told me

Whatever happens,it's part of growing up-love yourself,concentrate on school and enjoying life-take care.

I left him yesterday. Simply because I've found out a sh*t load of things that he is "unhappy" about. So, I broke it off. He was going to go out with this easy girl, and I did it soI wouldn't have to wait, and so she'd look like the rebound. I love him, but I think we are better as friends. But now, we like never talk. Its awkward and I feel like he doesn't even like me as a friend anymore.

Well the title explains it all! And I'm supposed to meet him Saturday! HELP

How old are you?
I am asking because it will greatly affect my answer.

Of you? You are 13 years old! You need to not be looking at dirty pictures and you certainly shouldn't be the girl in them. OMG you are in trouble and I'm sorry but his dad is about to tell you to take a hike. I know I would being a soon to be father. Oh my gosh, you need to grow up. What do you think would happen if those pictures got out in your school and you and your boyfriend broke up? They would spread like wildfire and everyone will have seen your body. Are these pictures nude or dressed at least say they are dressed. I would say I'd avoid confronting this problem but believe me it'll come back to haunt you through your own parents as they will surely soon find out.

As has been stated,you are too young to be engaging in such things and the only thing you can do is admit your mistake and accept the consequences like an adult.

I know many kids your age do this but that is no excuse and it makes you look very trashy.Not saying you are but that is the first impression you have created for his father.

As has been said these things come back to haunt you and a good rule of thumb is never put anything on the net that you wouldn't want your mother to know about.

We live and learn and I hope this major mistake will teach you a lesson.

As the previous posters have said, own up,apologise and don't do it again.

Good luck.

Way too young to even be thinking about this stuff! You need to act a little bit more mature

It's scary that you are only 13. Really scary! What is the world coming too! At 13 I had just finished playing with Barbies (I know, I know, that was a bit old for most =p) but still. I broke up with my boyfriend at 16 because I didn't want things to go further and he couldn't accept that.

I think take the other peoples advice. Apologise and don't do it again! Its not a good look (no matter how much peers and the media tell you it is). Plus depending on what the photos were like, its actually illegal

You should have thought before you sent pictures to anyone.

If I were the one who got the pictures by mistake you can be assured that your Mom and Dad would be there with me on Saturday to meet with you.

Hope you've learned your lesson!

No sense in beating yourself up about it, you cannot undue what has been done.

On the plus side, you will likely never do the same thing again, and will learn from this mistake.

Human nature is forgiving in my opinion, and your boyfriends father will realize you made a big mistake and he won't even bring it up.

Try to put it behind you, and think twice before you hit the send button again.

Good luck.

From the criminal side, it is illegal for you to send them, CPS have investigated several cases locally and many places to "make an example of the kdis" are being very harsh in dealing with them.