View Full Version : I don't know what to do!
c_money_4eva
Nov 15, 2006, 07:23 PM
I'm 15 years old and I've been sexually active for the past year. I make sure the dude wears a condomn but sometimes they didn't. Now I have a bad odor and I'm not sure if I have a disease or something. I want to go to the doctors but I can't unless my dad or stepmom takes me! But if they take me and I have a disease or something I might get in trouble because they don't know what I'm doing and I don't want it to break their heart! But I'm also afraid that if I don't see a doctor soon, I might die or something! Can you give me some advice on what to do??
shygrneyzs
Nov 15, 2006, 07:34 PM
A bad odor could indicate a yeast infection or something worse than that. You do need to go to a doctor to find out and get it treated. You took on the responsibilities of being an adult when you started to have sexual relations. Now it is time to see through the consequences. Do you have a public health/school nurse at your school that you can talk to? They are bound by a code of confidentiality. Perhaps that nurse can help you. If not, then you will need to explain this to your Dad and Stepmom and deal with that.
J_9
Nov 16, 2006, 07:10 AM
I agree with the answer you have. However, if you can talk to your step-mom you don't have to tell her that you are having sex. You can just tell her that you think you may have a yeast infection. Many women get them, it is not uncommon. There are other reasons for a yeast infection other than sex.
But, I do agree that it most likely is a yeast infection and you need to see your doctor.
MISSIBAYBE
Jan 9, 2007, 10:17 AM
Drink lots of water, cranberry juice, and yogurt helps to clean out your system naturally. On top of your condom, you need to get on birth control.
Matt3046
Apr 17, 2007, 01:16 AM
Stop and think about waiting awile, there is no rush and any guy who cares will respect your decision. But yes as J9 said you don't have to tell them about it, just that you need to see a dr.
akms
Apr 23, 2007, 06:19 PM
Tell us how it goes
Dreams of lies
Jul 28, 2007, 02:20 PM
What you can do is ask to see the dr. or walk their if it is not that fair, and ask to get appontment, also thir is something thir that you can ask them if they can't tell your parnts they would only get the bill for it but they would not know why though.