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CCHS2010
Jan 3, 2010, 11:19 PM
I met this girl a month or two ago and it seemed like we immediately hit it off. Lately we have hung out a few times with friends and **** and that is always cool, but when its is just her and I she either can't keep herself away from me( playfully poking, hitting, grabbing, tickling, etc.) and from talking with me, or she barely acknowledges me and leaves me with one word answers. I know she was into me at one point because she had started to jokingly refer to me as her lover or would do cute little things with her food or gum and ask if it was turning me on and if I wanted more. I also know that her friend has told her she (her friend that is) has a crush on me. Would that have anything to do with it or is she just not sure what she wants? PLEASE HELP I am really into her and would like to know if it seems like I am wasting my time! If it does seem like she likes me what should my next course of action be?

lovebird120
Jan 4, 2010, 12:08 AM
She stopped giving u these little signs she used to?
Yeah if her friend told her that she may have backed off, I think you should talk to her ask her on a date or something, not sure, worst case she'll say she can't or something

LJDK
Jan 4, 2010, 01:29 AM
Tell her you want to talk to her. Look serious. Tell her to sit down as this might come as a shock. This will just get her attention.

Then tell her you like her and ask her how she feels. Make sure you don't sound like liking her as a friend, but you want something more than just a friend.

Honesty is the best method to solve these riddles.

amicon
Jan 4, 2010, 03:44 AM
Unless you ask her how she feels about you,you'll never know.

talaniman
Jan 4, 2010, 06:17 PM
She wants you to show some interest to her on a personal level, so stop waiting for a signal, and just go for it, and find out.

valkman98
Jan 4, 2010, 07:52 PM
Hear the words, ask her, be nice but straight forward. If you can somehow read minds,Please tell us so we can too.LOL Best of luck on what you are looking for.

Romefalls19
Jan 5, 2010, 06:18 AM
Talk to her, just say you are into her and see what happens