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xalix
Dec 28, 2009, 02:04 PM
Hi,
I like some one for last 2 years, she like some one else she has a boyfriend. We work at same place , initially I didn't had any feeling for her at all for first 5-8 months. But after some time I started liking her so much. But I knew she already had a boy friend that's why initially I didn't tell her anything. Then I try everything so some how I forget her and get her out of my mind. Even last year I went on holidays for few weeks she was in my mind all the time.
Then I decided to tell her everything and that's what I did. She told me she like her boyfriend too much and she like me as friend ans she like talking to me. If she been single she won't had any problem. I can understand her position her stand, but I can't change my feeling for her , I can't take her out of my mind. Whole day I spent thinking about her I can't do my work...
Any suggestion and help will be appreciated.
Thanks

Alty
Dec 28, 2009, 02:29 PM
You're going to have to get over it. She made her feelings clear, she's with someone that she cares about, you're just a friend. So be a friend and stop dreaming about her as something else.

HistorianChick
Dec 28, 2009, 02:31 PM
She is in a relationship. She is off limits. Period.

That is the one relationship rule that should always be obeyed: If a man/woman is in a relationship/engaged/married/or otherwise "taken," he/she is off limits. Period.

There are enough single, non-taken people in the world today. She is happy in her relationship - leave her alone.

jaime90
Dec 28, 2009, 02:47 PM
If you really liked her, you would respect how she feels. Leave her alone. She's already taken.