I've been in an on-off relationship with my boyfriend for four years and we decided to "loose it" together about six months ago. For the first few months we used condoms but quit and started the "pull out" method and not soon after he stopped that too. He tells me he wouldn't mind having a kid as long as it was with me and to be honest, I wouldn't mind too much if I were to ever have a baby with him, so we don't try to prevent it. Now we use the "whatever happens, happens" method. I know it sounds stupid at the fact I just turned 17 and he's about to be 17. I DO NOT need comments saying, "Your way to young, blah, blah, blah," because I'm fully aware of my age and his.


Since the last time we had sex, I don't feel myself. I'm not sleeping well, I keep waking up and in the morning, I have to always pee. I never used to wake up and have to use the bathroom right away. Also throughout the day I "go" more than usual. Recently I have been getting really bad headaches that make my head feel heavy to the point I have to lay down. I have not started around when I start a lot of times. Keep in mind though my periods are not regular. Some foods I used to die for, don't sound so great anymore. My nipples are sore, but not to the point it literally hurts to touch. I have no morning sickness. I have had a lot of gas recently (Not so pleasant to probably hear.) and I feel mixed emotions all the time. One minute I'm happy, next I'm sad/angry.

I don't know If this could be due to stress, but I could use advise. I know my boyfriend and I talk about pregnancy often, but now that it might be reality, it scares me. (Please no stupid remarks.)

Take a test with first morning urine .
Unless you want to be a mother and that guy will dump you in a heartbeat ,be safe ,get a life before you make a life.
No lecture there right :)

That's a very immature approach to sex, conception and motherhood.

Wait until your period is due, if it doesn't come, take a test.

There's a girl I know.she just turned 18 and has a little boy of 18 months...

Guess what she did for her 18th birthday?

Nothing.

Guess how much she has to spend on herself and presents this christmas?

Nothing.

Guess how much free time she has and how often she gets to go into town and just hang out with her friends?

Never,all her friends are busy with school and having fun,they have nothing in common any more.

Guess how long her boyfriend stayed around after the baby was born?

He didn't..

Guess how often she gets her hair done or new clothes?

Never.

Guess how old she looks from no sleep,no money?

Old.

She lives with her parents and they are very good to her,but they are not raising her child.

Wait until your next period,and hope to god your not pregnant.

Didn't want a lecture?

Tough.