View Full Version : Why am I not conceiving, what am I doing wrong
choosy17
Dec 21, 2009, 09:52 PM
Am trying to conceive for the past 4 months and every month I get my period on dot 29th :( its very frustrating and disappointing.
I tracked my ovulation period with the kit and tried to have sex every alternate day for that week. Tried to sleep over the left side to avoid much of leakage... last month I even tried to stick my legs up for around an hour but even this time am getting a sensation of getting my periods this month.
I have started my Prenatal tab for the past 5 months and it has increased my appetite and has helped me to form a routine in my every day life.
I have no habits of drinking or smoking, still nothing is clicking...
What am I doing wrong?
Any help/ suggestion would be greatly appreciated
Thanks
Alty
Dec 21, 2009, 09:56 PM
It takes the average couple up to 2 years to conceive. At four months you're not even 1/4 of the way there.
You're not doing anything wrong.
I know it's frustrating, there are so many stories of people that only tried once and wham, the got pregnant. They're not the norm though, so don't base your life on that.
There are ovulation kits available. I know you said that you tracked your ovulation, but these kits are a bit more reliable. It's like a pregnancy test, you pee on the stick and it tells you if you're ovulating.
I wish you all the best. Baby dust for the New Year. :)
choosy17
Dec 28, 2009, 05:48 PM
Thanks for your wishes.. am using First response ovulation kit! If you can suggest something better, please do!
29th is when my periods starts every month and am very tensed about 2mrw.. trust me, its worst than taking up some exam! I do have the sensation of getting my periods but still some hope hanging around the edge!
Cheers
choosy17
Feb 1, 2010, 12:23 PM
Hi.. I wanted to share the news with you all, "Am pregnant.." Thanks for all your wishes!
The very day we found out am pregnant (using the home test) we got the bad news that my FIL passed away.. and it dawned on us and covered the happiness ;(
Anyway, am planning to go for the test this Wednesday meanwhile... am worried that I have considerable amount of discharge coming out and am scared if its any sign for my period..
Please advice
Thanks in advance
S
choosy17
Feb 1, 2010, 12:36 PM
Have missed my period, tested positive for pregnancy. Am planning to go to DOc for confirmation soon... am worried that I have considerable amount of discharge coming out and am scared if its any sign for my period.. WE desparately want this baby, When I went a month back for Paps test, doc suggested Monostat for yeast infection, is it anything to do with that?
Please please advice
Thanks in advance
C
nicckidoodle
Feb 1, 2010, 12:49 PM
Is the discharge bloody or pink colored at all fishy? There are many causes for discharge, infection, cervical changes,I had incresed discharge my whole pregnancy, you just want to watchthe color and smell, if you are uncomfortable and worried it is always recommended for you to see your doc
choosy17
Feb 3, 2010, 02:16 PM
I was late for my period (29th) I did HPT couple of times (30&31) and both came +ve. Today (Feb 3rd) went to the Dr. and to my surprise the urine test came out negative. They have taken my blood work and I will know the results 2mrw. It is so frustrating.. how come the result changed negative and am yet to get my period. I came running home and tried one more HPT and it came negative too.. :((
Please help.. I was so happy telling everyone am pregnant last time I wrote and it is such a rollercoaster ride..