I am really confused. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and he has recently disclosed that he is a cross-dresser. I am unsure about this and have never thought before but I think he might be gay. He always wants anal sex constantly and basically for me to act as the man and to satisfy him which makes me think he may be gay. I would appreciate any feedback. Thank you.

Ok, you are confused since you posted this as answer to someone else's question. I will assume this was a separate question?? \

Several things, many, many straight men like to cross dress at times for various reasons.

And many staight men get pleasure from having stimulation in the anal area. ( and many more may if they did not have concern over everyone thinking they were gay)

Now of course this is not the large percentage of people but it really only means he has sexual tastes that are not considered main stream.

Now is he gay, does he desire and want to have sex with other men ? That is the question.

So if you are OK with him as he is, and you and he have it all worked out, what is the real issue

I mean it's a 50% chance he is and there is a 50% he isn't. But to be on the safe side just ask him before you go accusing. And its going to be hard but its better than not koowing. Hope things go well. -Autumn

I think he might be gay. he always wants anal sex constantly and basically for me to act as the man

Are you saying he wants you to penetrate him? He may be. Does he prefer emotional involvement with guys? If so, he is.

Cross dressers are not necessarily gay, in fact, make up only a very small percentage.

This might clarify that part of your post:

http://jenellerose.com/htmlpostings/conservative_men.htm

Yes, I think that you should talk to him about this. You won't find the answer here as to what he is wanting.

I mean, I don't wear a dress and ask my wife to mount me, and to "take it like a man", so I'm no expert on this subject.

But the odds of him being willing to be with a man is better than average I'd bet.

To each is own.

He should have told you about the wardrobe switching BEFORE you got so involved.

Studies show most cross dressers have no gay inclinations at all.

You can relax being assured he isn't tooting the beef bugle when you aren't around.

I assume you mean fully crossdress and not just the underwear.

That may make a big difference.