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kenzie33
Dec 13, 2009, 08:25 AM
Im 18 years old, I lost my virginity five days ago (without a condom). I am on birth control but I had skipped a few pills earlier this month. The time for my period to start would have been the day that I had sex or a few days afterwards. The day after we had sex I started my period. It was heavy and it seemed to be normal so I was really excited about it. The next day I bleed all day but then It kind of started slowing down towards the night to where I thought it had completely stopped. Then for the next few days I've been bleeding a lot then not so much on and off. But today (the fifth day after sex) It has completely stopped. I usually bleed up to seven days heavy. I don't know anything about spotting. I've been completely stressed out, It's all I think about. I know it wasn't smart to not use a condom especially the first time.. But we all make mistakes. I know he did not "get off" in me but my friend mentioned something about pre ? I don't know what to do, I'm still in high school my parents are super strict there is no way they would approve of me being pregnant.... Am I pregnant?

Fr_Chuck
Dec 13, 2009, 08:33 AM
Let me see you had unprotected sex and was on the pill but was not taking it properly. Sorry way before having sex was when you needed to start worry.

1. you could still be pregnant even if you were taking the pills properly, the pill when done properly is still not 100 percent.
2. even with a condom and with a pill done properly is still not 100 percent.

So no condom, pill done improperly there is a chance to be pregnant.

And yes, "pulling out" is no method at all, it merely lowers the amount of sperm that enters.

So you now sit and wait a month

redhed35
Dec 13, 2009, 08:35 AM
You need to take the pill EVERYDAY,its useless other wise..

The pill also effects your cycle.

No contraception is 100% safe,if your having sex,there's always a chance of becoming pregnant.

No one can say for sure if your pregnant or not on line.

I suggest going to the doctor and getting advise,and also reading the instructions on your pill.