Im in year 10, and at the beginning of the year my friend started going out with this guy in year 11 - I told her that he was really hot and I liked him too - I was only joking then, but have really started to like him, I chat to my friend about him all the time trying to find out about him -- and now I even started staying at my nans house every weekend because he the paper boy and collects the money, but I've recently started to stare at him and think -- he's gawgess, he has a six pack and is so lovely - and my friend has started to be really unkind to him - she made him choose between his best mate and her -- it makes me sick that he really likes her, and she just flirts with other guys ------ but today I went over the edge I paid him at the doorstep and he touched my hand I blushed like mad -- but still he doesn't see me ! I don't think I can really bare seeing my friend again -- I really think I'm in love HELP ME!

I wouldn't pursue a relationship with him. He's already taken. Your friend may not treat him the way you think he should be treated, but that doesn't give you the right to go after him. Remember - she's your friend. If you value your friendship at all, don't interfere.

I don't think he would appreciate getting caught up in a love triangle between two friends, nor the drama, since he has made his choice, and really its not your business. Be mad at the friend but don't stoop to playing games, just because you have a crush.

Sorry he is taken by choice, so back off, and stop the flirting. He will tire of her games, so stay out of their business.

Not being a very good "best friend" would you want her doing that to you if it was reversed.

Boyfriends will come and go ( esp at 14) but best friends hopefully can be there a lifetime

So... update I've moved schools so I don't have to face them anymore.. x

Since you've moved, keep your eyes open for that special someone. I'm sure he's just around the corner! Good luck!

Be friends with him.

Don't purse a relation with him... yet. Right now he's just in the fresh relationship stage. In other words once he realizes how she's not all that he'll break up with her and find the truth. Just wait. Nice girls finish first.