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constantina
Nov 30, 2009, 06:20 PM
After being with him for 2 yrs, we started as friends before the relationship an as much as I didn't want to be his girlfriend, I gave it a try after waiting for him from his deployment Army.. We spent sometime together everything was good a few arguments, but we made up afterwards.. On my way home from seeing him, he texted a few times an we talked a few times, He ignored me telling me he was confined an that he loved me not to give up on us... Well it took 6 months after that last confined text he sent me, when I seen him on Yahoo messenger, He had taken time to up grade his profile,, I got angry an texted him telling how he could hurt me this way completely ignoring me for months... I told him he didn't have to worry about me ever texting him or calling him, that the relationship an my feelings for him is dead... I felt bad for saying that never received a responds back,, until recently I emailed him telling him I moved on an that I was sorry for texting him that mean text... He responded back to my email telling me he was sorry an that I had no reason to apologize, an that he wants to be my friend an he ended it with love always... What do you people think,, I need your opinion, should I keep him as a friend or just let him go,, I still love him so much But I won't ever let him know or give in to him, I want him to know I moved on,, an Im happy... advice please...

Gemini54
Nov 30, 2009, 11:08 PM
Give him up - he's being polite and he's not interested in you.

If you didn't hear from him in 6 months then that's pretty obvious I'd say!

In any case, I'm not sure how you could still 'love' someone that didn't contact you for 6 months - that's not a relationship and it's not a friend either.

Move on and find someone that's close and available.

Jake2008
Dec 1, 2009, 12:33 AM
Some people make better friends than lovers, and you don't know which one, until you dive into those waters and check it out.

Because the friendship worked, and the boyfriend/girlfriend thing didn't, you haven't invested a lot in the latter.

I would play it cool, keep in touch with him, but strictly on a friendship level.

If he was a good friend, then maybe he can be again.

simii
Nov 28, 2010, 12:31 PM
MOVE ON... he is not interested in you at all and is very clear about what he wants and as if you are not over him than you can't be a friend to him so don`t think about being friends just let him go and concentrate on yourself and help yourself to get over him... cut all your contacts with him and move on with your life find some one who can love you and care for you...