Is there a way to tell if you come in a girl. Can you or her feel it. Just need to know to set my mind at rest so I don't freak. Thanks

I know I can it feels really really hot but you should know if you come or not...

Hi Broken,
You will unquestionably know it if you orgasm, though one thing to be aware of... Even before orgasm, you may release small amounts of "precum", a fluid that can and likely does contain traces of sperm. So, pulling out before ejaculation is certainly no guarantee that pregnancy absolutely will not occur. Therefore, if you are worried about such, always use a condom. There is always the issue of STD's to consider as well.
Be safe. Take care.