My boyfriend cheated on me and the woman fall pregnant but he says he is sorry and that he still love me, now I don't know what to do anymore and I want to know how can I trust him again?

If another woman is expecting his baby, there is a legal agenda to sort out,possible DNA, visitation rights and money matters. As a father,he will have responsabilities for his child for at least 18 years. Plus he's cheated on you. Saying you're sorry and telling you he loves you mean very little when his actions tell a different story. As for rebuilding trust, that takes a long time and it also takes a lot of work from both parties involved. Personally I would leave this guy,he's too much trouble.

Why the heck d you want to stay with someone who cheated on you? That's the question. He had the nerve to sleep with someone else while in your relationship. He must not love you that much, especially if he went all the way to getting her pregnant, makes you wonder how many times they have been trying. So how much are you willing to deal with the fact that he got another person pregnant, and how will you feel when he decides to introduce you to his child from another women? Face it, it will never be the same, this event will stick to you. And there's always going to be that voice in your head when he leaves saying "is he really doing what he said hes going to do?" in my opinion, best thing to do is to wish the best for him and his future problems. And move on to a better life, and a better boyfriend who will apreciate you.

Seems like you still want to give him another chance to fix the relationship. So obviously he's got some work to do to regain your trust.

You're going to have to decide whether you're satisfied with his effort and progress. Otherwise, this relationship will end whether you want to or not because:

No trust = no relationship

You can't trust him, and really he has more important things to do besides convince you of his love for you. He is a cheater, and cheaters are notorious liars also.

And he is soon to be a father, so leave this one alone and see if he handles his business like a man. Doubt it.

Move on!! Leave him to lie in the bed he made, and don't get in it with him.

If he loved you why did he cheat in the first placed? That isn't how you show someone you love them by hurting. Just a thought! Sometimes you have know when to walk away and to let it go.

Your relationship has now morphed into one that includes two more people, for the next 18 years. Now you will be a step mother, and take all the hard work and heartache that goes along with that.

He will be paying child support, and dealing with the child's mother over every little thing, and Christmasses, summer breaks and holidays are no longer your own to plan.

IF, and it is a big if, she had not become pregnant, and he had a brief fling because he temporarily lost his mind after wandering in the desert for a few months surviving only on red wine and crackers, he may do well in counselling. After all, he thought she was a mirage.

But, the truth is, he had sex with another woman by choice, and took a chance that that encounter would produce a baby, and it appears that is what will happen.

Take a good long look at what your life will be like to now include a baby, visitation, child support payments, court dates, disagreements on parenting, and generally your life turned upside down for nearly 2 decades.

I would run, not walk, right out the door.