I don't know how to my boyfriend he is on crack he does not pay a bill he eats sleeps and do drugs now he is bringing his mess around my child and grandchildren. He will not leave he can have friends. But I cannot go out I work 13-16 hrs per day. What am I to I just invest into 4 houses and this man can not get in the car plane or boat to go and fix our investments I am looking for a hard working Christian man I WANT OUT BUT DO NOT KNOW HOW TO GET OUT

Broken, what you need to do to get over her is to stop talking to her. You need to block her out of your life. Every time you talk to her, your recovery process restarts. All the progress you make goes down the drain.

So you say you broke up for 3 or 4 months now. Every time you communicate with her, you restart the healing process.

Stop talking to her. Block her out of all your social networks. Here's the link for no contact rules: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/nc-rules-faqs-332732.html

It's going to be tough, but you have to do it if you want to get over her. Otherwise, you will just drag out your pain and suffering.