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shaneka
Nov 21, 2009, 12:29 AM
Yes I'm 4 weeks pregnant an I'm having bad cramps and I'm bleeding but I don think it is my period and the blood is coming out red but its turning brown.. can somebody please help me

shaneka
Nov 21, 2009, 12:36 AM
Is it OK to take a pill while your pregnant

justcurious55
Nov 21, 2009, 12:59 AM
That totally depends on the pill.

justcurious55
Nov 21, 2009, 01:03 AM
Are you sure you're pregnant? I only ask because hpt tests are barely reliable at this point. And seeing as there's no way you could tell exactly when you had conceived (since it may not necessarily be the day you had sex) it seems a little strange tha you could know already exactly how far along you are.

Anyway, cramps and bleeding during pregnancy ALWAYS should be discussed with your dr.

shaneka
Nov 21, 2009, 01:33 PM
Yes I'm sure I have all the symptoms... im not sure executally how far along I am though... thanks

shaneka
Nov 21, 2009, 01:35 PM
It's a pill called ocella because I'm having really bad cramps and pains so I was just wondering

rockie100
Nov 21, 2009, 01:40 PM
Have you been to the Doc. Yet? You should be cunsulting them on this question and concern.

artlady
Nov 21, 2009, 01:55 PM
If you are pregnant and having cramps ,or any type of pain ,you need to see a doctor ASAP.
Pain and cramping are not typical pregnancy symptoms.

mamaof2boys
Nov 21, 2009, 03:49 PM
Having all the symptoms does not mean youa re pregnant by any means. Have you taken an actual test or been to the dr? "pregnancy symptoms" can be caused by many different things. You need to take a test if you haven't.

shaneka
Nov 21, 2009, 04:23 PM
Ye sim sure I'm pregnant but my friiend tld me that its implantation bleeding

shaneka
Nov 21, 2009, 04:32 PM
Yes me and my boyfriend broke up for a couple of days before Halloween days for... so I went to a party and I had sex with this dude so now I'm pregnant... and he found out that I'm pregnant and he's mad and he thinks I cheated on him but I didn't.. and now we argue like everyday but I want him back but I don't think he wants me back but he calls me like everyday... what should I do because I really love him so much

mamaof2boys
Nov 21, 2009, 04:38 PM
You still never answered the question, did you take a test? It could be implantation bleeding, it could be something totally different. It could be something serious. You need to call your doctor.

talaniman
Nov 21, 2009, 04:55 PM
I think you start with finding out if your really pregnant, and tell your parents.

As for the boyfriend, I would be mad because you shagged another guy while on a break from an argument. That's not exactly a good way of showing love.

Personally, I find it appalling you would be more worried about a dude, than the actions that got you in this mess.

I think its time to leave the guys alone, and get some perspective on your own behavior, and what it means for your future, with whichever baby daddy who has to pay the support.

shaneka
Nov 21, 2009, 04:59 PM
Oh damn naw I isn't take the test yet imma take one tomorrow

shaneka
Nov 21, 2009, 05:02 PM
I didn't think nothing of it because we broked for good and he like we not together nomore... so I don't know why hell be mad because we won't together

talaniman
Nov 21, 2009, 05:17 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-chat-speak-no-text-talk-303157.html

He obviously doesn't feel the same way. If it doesn't matter stop talking to him since this was a forever break up.

By the way chat/text is hard for some of us to understand, so have mercy, please

shaneka
Nov 22, 2009, 09:38 AM
I been bleeding but I don't think its mii period so I'm thinking its implantation bleeding because when I 1st started to bleed it was brownish then light pink... an I have bad crampin and sharp pains in mii stomach an when I go to sleep I sleep with a pillow between mii legs and I lay on my side an the pain goes away but when I lay on mii stomach it hurts like hell... I need help

J_9
Nov 22, 2009, 09:48 AM
ye sim sure im pregnant but my friiend tld me dat its implantation bleeding

Please use complete words and sentences. This is not a chat room.

Is your "friend" in the medical field? If so, she would know that implantation bleeding is not a medically proven fact.

Have you taken a HPT yet?

J_9
Nov 22, 2009, 09:50 AM
You need to seek medical attention. Is it possible you have a tubal pregnancy?

shaneka
Nov 22, 2009, 09:54 AM
Mii appt isn't until dec.14 what is a tubal preganacy

J_9
Nov 22, 2009, 10:07 AM
mii appt aint until dec.14 what is a tubal preganacy

Do you mean "my appointment isn't until dec 14. What is a tubal pregnancy?"

Please don't use chat speak.

A tubal pregnancy is a pregnancy that occurs in the fallopian tubes. It can be life threatening if not treated properly.

shaneka
Nov 22, 2009, 10:09 AM
Yeah that is what I'm talking about and don't try and come off I can write how I won't to but thanks anyway

J_9
Nov 22, 2009, 10:12 AM
yeah that is what im talking about and dont try and come off i can write how i wont to but thanks anyways

Please read the TOS... we don't allow chat speak here.

shaneka
Nov 22, 2009, 10:14 AM
Okay

J_9
Nov 22, 2009, 10:14 AM
Use the best English you are capable of. "Chat speak", all caps, lack of punctuation, etc. can be annoying, and will frequently result in the post being either unanswered or removed.

Found here... https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_faq_rules

shaneka
Nov 22, 2009, 10:26 AM
No she is not in medical field... and no I haven't

J_9
Nov 22, 2009, 10:30 AM
Yes im 4 weeks pregnant


no i haven't

Please tell us how you know you are 4 weeks pregnant if you haven't taken a HPT and your doctors visit isn't until December 14.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/something-not-418299.html

Mymama
Nov 22, 2009, 11:39 AM
See your OB/GYN asap!

stormey44
Nov 22, 2009, 01:36 PM
If I was you I would make a trip to the er if it's a tubal it can be very dangrous

Fr_Chuck
Nov 22, 2009, 05:36 PM
There are too many threads started by the original poster, I am closing this one
In future posts, don't use text talk ( or they will be delted) and keep it all to one thread

talaniman
Nov 24, 2009, 04:53 PM
... so I went to a party and I had sex with this dude so now I'm pregnant...

Depends on who's the father. You better just tell him sooner rather than later.

Cat1864
Nov 24, 2009, 05:16 PM
How old are you?

First, you confirm the pregnancy and get started on prenatal care so that you can have a healthy child.

Second, I guess you don't think your ex-boyfriend is the father since you have said he knows. Get in touch with the male you had sex with after you broke up with your boyfriend. Tell him straight out that he may be a father. If you are concerned that he might get physical, have an impartial third party mediate.

Third, you hop from your ex-boyfriend's bed to some other guy's bed when you have been broken up for only a couple of days and you wonder why he might be upset or question the paternity of the child?

Fourth, grow up and realize that you have been making some very poor choices. However, there is always a chance to work on making better choices in the future. Time for you to show some maturity in how you make decisions affecting your life and the child's.

Devorameira
Nov 24, 2009, 05:37 PM
1) Go to the doctor or clinic and get a pregnancy test.
2) IF it's positive, tell the "dude" you slept with during the break.
3) IF it's positive, start your proper prenatal care immediately.
4) You sound young, so you may want to decide whether you should adopt the baby out to a nice couple.

Good luck with your decision.

shaneka
Nov 24, 2009, 05:58 PM
I'm 17 years old about to be 18 in two months. And no my ex boy-friend is not the father it's the other dude. I want to keep my baby

shaneka
Nov 24, 2009, 06:37 PM
Because I didn't have sex with mii ex for a while

talaniman
Nov 25, 2009, 07:39 AM
If he is your ex, and not the baby's father, why worry about telling him anything? Its not even his business.

jaime90
Nov 25, 2009, 10:29 AM
I'm giving a HARSHNESS disclaimer because this just sickens me...

I do not blame this guy for not wanting you back. Just a few days after breaking up with him, you found someone else and had sexual relations with him... Now you have to put up with the consequences of your actions. Why would he take you back when you think you are pregnant with another guy's kid that you had sex with a few days after breaking up with him?? Leave him alone, I hate to say this, but he honestly deserves better in a relationship.
Oh, and you don't love him. Love is commitment. You couldn't be committed. You may FEEL like you love him, but love isn't a feeling, it's a choice- and you chose to have sex with someone else. You don't love him.

shaneka
Nov 25, 2009, 11:29 AM
One of my friends told him that I'm pregnant.. you right I don't have to tell him nothing

He tells me I'm in the wrong an he calls me cursing me out all the time then hanging up in my face but he do tells me he misses me but I'm not gone stress myself out nomore over my ex

shaneka
Nov 30, 2009, 05:55 PM
How do you count your weeks of pregnancy

justcurious55
Nov 30, 2009, 06:23 PM
Figure out about when you conceived and count from there. You may need your dr's help figuring out when you conceived if you're not sure when you might have. They'll be able to tell, or at least give you a pretty accurate estimate, by the ultrasound how many weeks along you are.

shaneka
Nov 30, 2009, 06:57 PM
Oh OK thank you

cowgirly
Dec 2, 2009, 11:24 AM
So are you pregnant or not?

shaneka
Dec 2, 2009, 04:59 PM
I'm pregnant and I'm to stressed out like I'm having so many problems with everything but not with mii preganacy but having real bad cramps it come every now an then and then I eat like every 5-10 minutes. I want to keep my baby but then again I don't but I really don't want to give my baby up for adoption or get an aboration

JudyKayTee
Dec 2, 2009, 05:40 PM
What is the question?

I am asking that all of your threads be combined. It is almost impossible to keep going from thread to thread, trying to put together what is happening in your life.

Once the whole story is posted you will get some good advice. I do notice, however, that you have already gotten advice and some of those same people will be answering again.

shaneka
Dec 2, 2009, 06:11 PM
This is my question... I want to keep my baby but then again I don't,but I really don't want to give my baby up for adoption or get an aboration,and I'm stressing over this situation I hope don't anything happen to my baby because I be stressed out

JudyKayTee
Dec 2, 2009, 07:21 PM
When is your baby due? Where is the father?

Mistique
Dec 2, 2009, 07:34 PM
This is my question...I want to keep my baby but then again i dont,but i really dont want to give my baby up for adoption or get an aboration,and im stressing over this situation i hope dont anything happen to my baby becuase i be stressed out

How old are you? Where is your boyfriend? Have you told the father of the baby that he is expecting? Do you have really good family support? Are you somewhat established (i.e. Job, home and ability to support)?

Babies are little miracles - think of that little fetus growing inside of you a "mini-you"... later they will be walking around in full sleepers, soother and pulling a blanket calling you "mama". Having a baby is truly a gift and if you can not support the baby then the best thing you can do is give the baby to a family who can support for him/her, provide a future, stable environment and lots of unconditional love - some people can't have babies... so you are giving them a gift. If your life is so unstable then this is the best thing you can do. Choosing to keep or give up a baby to someone else via adoption is a very hard decision... look at all the options you have available and talk to family/friends.

Having a baby doesn't mean giving up your life... it might take a while longer to get the Degree but you can still do all the wonderful things you want with someone a lot smaller being your biggest fan! Remember to make the decision on what makes sense for the baby. I feel sorry for your situation (though I have no idea what it is (surrounding the pregnancy)) but think of the baby before yourself... this is the best thing you can do for him/her.

Relax, plan it out, look at ALL your options (other then abortion of course) and take care of yourself so you have a happy, healthy and beautiful baby; this makes mama happy, healthy and beautiful too :).

Good luck and let us know what is really going on.

cowgirly
Dec 2, 2009, 08:39 PM
I think this is some kid, looking for attention, she has never even confirmed she is pregnant, at least not anywhere in the thread I can see. I think you all are wasting your time. If you are pregnant, good luck to you and your child.

mamaof2boys
Dec 2, 2009, 08:49 PM
No, she has said several times that she has NOT taken a pregnancy test but she knows she is 4 weeks pregnant.

cowgirly
Dec 2, 2009, 08:52 PM
I understand, but she SAYS she is pregnant, doesn't mean she is, doesn't mean she isn't, but I doubt it...

mamaof2boys
Dec 2, 2009, 08:59 PM
I know that's what Im saying. I doubt it too. If I thought I was pregnant I would take a test to confirm it or go to the dr. Not just say I was pregnant.

cowgirly
Dec 2, 2009, 09:03 PM
Oh, yeah exactly, It really is someone that's probably just bored and messing around.

Mistique
Dec 2, 2009, 09:15 PM
shaneka, I think you owe everyone an explanation... are you or are you not?. I just spent time answering a question I HOPE was not a waste.

Alty
Dec 2, 2009, 09:45 PM
First, have you finally taken a pregnancy test? If you haven't then stop wasting our time. Pregnancy symptoms and PMS are almost exact, so only a positive pregnancy test will confirm pregnancy, not symptoms and not the so called "implantation bleeding".

All the chat speak is very hard to understand and you've been asked many times to stop. If you cannot write in complete sentences and proper English then let us know what your desired language is, maybe we can get someone to help so we can better understand you.

shaneka
Dec 3, 2009, 12:39 AM
Hold the up why would I eVEn lie about being pregnant dumb... if you could see when I just asked my question I said I was pregnant. Yeah I took a pregnancy test and yes it is postivie I wouldn't be wasting you time OR MINES if I was playing

Cat1864
Dec 3, 2009, 05:41 AM
Its a pill called ocella cus im having really bad cramps and pains so i was just wondering

When did you start taking birth control pills?
Are you still taking birth control pills?
Ocella medical facts from Drugs.com (http://www.drugs.com/mtm/ocella.html)

Have you read the cautions on the pills? One of them is 'Do not take if you are pregnant'.

JudyKayTee
Dec 3, 2009, 07:09 AM
This is exactly why I asked that the posts be combined. The story is all over the place, inconsistent. I note the attitude of the OP when "caught" in her own web.

Yes, I see everyone wasting a lot of time for the second time in two days.

justcurious55
Dec 3, 2009, 08:04 AM
OK. So now that you say you've taken a pregnancy test, have you been to the dr's to confirm how far along you really are? And are you going to answer all of mistique's questions or just keeping wasting time giving people attitude? People are trying to help you. No one can help when you refuse to answer their follow up questions and instead respond with a negative attitude.

J_9
Dec 3, 2009, 08:10 AM
Due to the OP's discrepancies, this thread is now CLOSED